Xersex posted about comments caught in Spam. I went to double-check. Sure enough. Quite a few comments from Faithful Readers in there, dating all the way back to 2015. If you left a comment on a post and didn't see it, chances are it will be there now.
Thank you, Xersex, for insisting it was happening.
Regarding yesterday's message that her boyfriends dad taught him how to take care of his morning boner.... As masturbation becomes more and more acceptable to admit as a healthy part of life, I wonder how many parents are open about it with their sons.
My father never talked about sex in any way. The word "sex" was never even mentioned. Jacking off was only something my brother and I knew about from our friends.
When my dad caught my brother masturbating, my brother got beat with a razor strap. How's that for "The Talk"?
It's so important for dads to help their sons through what can be a very difficult period. Helping them to understand the constant boners, morning wood, explaining the first wet dream, the leaking pre-cum.
Men, if you have sons, Masturbation Month provides the perfect --- a golden --- opportunity to educate them about their bodies. You taught them how to take a leak, you taught them how to keep it clean, now teach them how to use it and enjoy it.
Heck, you could even go so far as to give them a Masturbation Toolkit: A jar of coconut oil (or other good lube), a stack of hand towels for clean-up, and --- if you really want to be a Super dad, a Fleshlight (or other masturbation sleeve).
I promise you, someday they'll thank you for your openness and honesty.
How many of you guys have (or had) parents who taught you to have a good positive attitude about your cock?
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As far as I'm concerned, not a single word between my late parents and me about masturbation or sex. But that was in one prehistoric time.
I'm glad to learn that our common friend Xersex helped you solve your problem.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
I was taught how to masterbate by an older cousin, at a family reunion, in a two seater outhouse.I loved that reunion.
Nothing from my father. The only thing from my mother was, "Keep your peter in your pants."
the "system" protects you from various spam comments, but it goes often wrong! Obviously we will get used to this new form of blogspot, but in my humble opinion, it was better the one before.
@ rick - That sounds familiar. My mom said something similar to me once. "If you ever get a girl pregnant, I'll cut it off." Well, now......
Man, I was super lucky. My dad not only allowed me to beat off, he actually taught me different strokes and grips. He handled mine, and allowed me to handle his. As I grew, we enjoyed jacking together when we were camping, and take care of each other. I never discussed it with anyone but one of my gym teachers, who said Dad sounded like a very sensible man.
Wait till I tell the Lad you found a picture of him hard in his sweats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He'll love it! #7
And yes...not sure why comments are going to spam. I had some but only very recent, abut 10. I seem to get the published comments a reader makes and then the same comment in spam,
Search me.
When my parents wanted to have 'the talk' I had already had sex, so yeah...
And Blogger is such a little bitch (and I love me a bitch) and it's been acting up a storm for EVER!
I never know if my comments made it, TBH.
XOXO
Silence seems to be passed on through the generations. Nothing from my parents. Also there's a big difference between learning about reproduction and learning about "sex." Yes they go together but they are very separate subjects. If there was any discussion in school or by parents, it tends to be more about the reproduction side. hugs and bisous.
Learned about it from kids at school, but got caught by my dad and he was very cool about it. I wasn't really doing it "right" (I wasn't wrapping my hand around it, more like holding it by my finger tips). Without being weird or creepy, he said "oh man, ok, well sorry for walking in! Uh, try it like this (hand gestures), it'll feel WAY better". And that was it. I also found a box of tissues in my room the next day. Lol.
My father never said anything about it, but I did talk about masturbation with my sons at an appropriate age (nearly 40 years ago). I told them how to do it and encouraged them to regard it as normal. I thought it was doubly important to make my attitudes clear because I was their Vicar as well as their father.
No teaching, but I figure they knew I was bating and didn't want to "interfere".
When I was quite young, maybe around 5yo, I was taken to a doctor's office where he examined my penis and very painfully peeled my adhered foreskin off the head of my penis. No explanation. Probably was a follow-up exam of my hypospadias penis, which luckily they never tried to tix. The head of my penis was exposed and it was all red with a funny rim. It never got better - always stayed that red color. Eventually, years later I figured out that was the way it was supposed to be, and at about age 10 I started bating it to try and make it shoot the way a neighbor boy had showed me his did.
Nothing from my parents other than my dad saying it's normal, and buying me condoms ever since I was 13.
I did teach my friends, are high is funny because I was the youngest in our gang.
I think that a more open communication, conversation and even demonstration might be had from fathers to sons if that concept weren't considered something that is wrong or even illegal. I divorced my x wife when my son was 14 and he and I have always had open communication but it never went further than the usual "talk". Today we can talk about anything but he is 33. I think that there is a fine line between something that is "good" or something that is wrong between parent and child. A great Dad could show his son how to masturbate and have open communication but a pervert would use that as a door to doing something that might hurt the young man. I love the idea that a father/ son relationship could be this open but my Dad was very closed off physically and sexually and these talks never happened until I was an adult and even then it was very rare. Hugs!
How did it's become are high? PHONE!
@ Maddie - That's The Lad? Oh, you are a lucky, lucky man, aren't you? Tell him he can share more!
@ Jean - So absolutely true. Reproduction never tackles erections, penetration, or ejaculation. In 6th grade Biology (where most kids were 13) the teacher explained reproduction as far as testicles make sperm, ovaries make the eggs, sperm fertilizes the egg. A girl asked how the sperm got to the egg. The teacher told her she'd have to go home and ask her parents while everyone else laughed.
@ Anon, May 18, 2022 at 7:54 PM - Now see? That's what I mean when I say fathers should be more open and honest with their instruction.
@ colin23 - That's the proper way to educate sons.
@ Gay Dad - All true. Teaching doesn't necessarily mean showing - though a picture is worth a thousand words. 😊
With my own family (no dad in the picture), the 'talk' was more on sexuality and being responsible (using protection, saying no etc). Masturbation was never brought up. Found that out through porn. We had conversational openness.
With partner though his relationship with his family is different to mine. He is close with both parents. His dad tries to maintain a close relationship with him. His dad never had any relationship with his own father and he doesnt want his son (my partner) to go through what he did. His dad tries to act like an older brother or best friend with him (his parents were young when they started having kids). They both are open with being naked and jerking off. With them its keep your pants on around your mother.
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