The blogger comment widget is quite uncooperative on some blogs today. Maddie's and Gabriel's blogs refused to publish my comments. Arrgh!
"I hope you and your readers remember me. I wrote in a while ago that my wife asked to watch me masturbate and I ccouldn't do it. I've tried and tried to do as you all suggested to make a video. I get my dick hard and set the camera on my phone and by the time I get comfortable on the bed my dick goes soft. Any ideas to help me give her this would be appreciated."
My guess is that you're allowing too many years of shame about jacking off keep you from the task. Whether that's a live show for her or a video. I think the vast majority of guys have been raised to be ashamed of the activity.
But times have changed. That's evident by the proliferation of selfies out on the Internet Highway.
But if you're worried it might end up on the internet, remove any unique jewelry and cover any tattoos and make sure your face is out of camera range.
Here's my suggestion. Set the camera up first. Then forget about the camera. Forget about what it is you're doing. Just enjoy your cock. Because it's my guess that she wants to see what gets you going.
Any other suggestions, Readers?
13 comments:
No other suggestion. I think you are right.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings chéris Jean and Pat.
Have a great weekend.
I think you're giving him sound advice.
Also, he needs to do a test run or three before he gets the hang of it all. Not everybody was born to be a porn star.
BTW, loved the examples you posted...
XOXO
Good luck! Hope you have a lovely weekend. Kizzes.
That a tough one. If you can't relax or get nervous it's hard to perform. The only thing I can think of is go a couple days with no sex or jacking off, get good and horny and then film it! If horny enough, he jack off.
Sorry to hear you couldn't comment. Its odd, because some days I can't even access Sixpense's, Ricko or Gabriels blog. It won't even let me past the warning box, even though I hit continue. I happens with yours too, but not as often as theirs. So I can't even see their blogs some days.
Blogger is going nuts.
@ Maddie - I've had that same thing happen to me with several blogs. My own included. I find if I close down the search engine and start again, it lets me in.
@ Six - Test runs. Good idea!! XOXO
Is there some reason wife is not watching in person? And then maybe she can be the one who records. I agree with Maddie if he's determined to do it himself he needs to do it two or three times. That way he will have a choice of the one he ends up showing.
Don't forget you take a lot of pictures at a special event so you have plenty to choose from.
hugs and bisous
I think the problem is the OP is being demanded to perform for someone else's gratification and subconsciously resents it, hence the sabotage.
Perhaps the OP is always required to perform with his partner according to what she wants, when she wants and masturbation is the only time the OP gets to do what he wants for himself: having that performance demand intrude into personal space is perhaps going too far.
Maybe the OP's partner going first and masturbating herself in front of the OP before sex might get him going too.
Many guys jack off while watching porn, I do, but usually try not to get too focused on it. But this could work for your correspondent - get his mind off of the task he's worried about accomplishing and allow him to get going until the pleasure takes over?
If anyone figures out how to combat these Blogger issues, please let me know. I am so frustrated but I just don't know what to do to fix things.
@ Gabriel - I don't know how you switch off your current comment widget to one like Rick and I use. I know Rick (SickoRicko) has switched off this pop-up type and then went back to it because it's more stable. You might want to give him a shout.
Hmmm, from what I am reading, this fellow has two issues confronting him.
1) Jacking off at/per someones request and.
2) Videoing the scene.
First, because of ignorance, religion, and absurd cultures, boys, and thus men, have been shamed for masturbating. Very wrong but it has been ingrained in most men and they are reluctant to discuss it, admit they do it, and that same shame is passed from generation to generation. Fortunately for the young guys out there, the internet is awash with videos to help cancel the shame.
Second, why the videoing? It seems the fellow is having enough issues being asked to J/O for an audience, then requesting a video is adding to his stress. I say no video. Perhaps have her "help" him in the bedroom until he's comfortable enough to continue by himself to ejaculation. She can watch. After that, she may have had her jollies and will request no more or she'll help jack him off enough to give him the confidence to do it without her help. Still curious about her motives, especially the video. Hmmmm
@ Anon - This post stems from one from about a month ago. His wife asked to watch him - not an unusual request, really. Lots of women like watching guys jack off. She wants to see what gives him pleasure. And sex therapists often prescribe this activity to couples. The video was suggested here as a means of enabling him to fulfill her request because he couldn't do it with her in the room watching. He was too self-conscious. Everyone thought that being by himself and recording it might be a way for him to accomplish the task.
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