"So we're two guys sharing a house and we aren't shy about being naked or that we have a wank once in a while but last weekend instead of going on about his business he stood watching me. He got miffed and walked off when I told him I not his personal Only Fans and he needed to find something else to do or drop his pants and join me. Was I wrong? I mean, it doesn't matter that he saw me jerking off but I don't want him staring while I stroke my dick either."
Were you wrong? Not exactly. That you guys are easy-going about nudity and open about masturbation is to be commended. But where were you? In what could be considered a private area like your bedroom or bathroom?
Though I have often said guys shouldn't have to hide, sad as it may seem, I'd suggest if you don't want an audience, you need to contain the activity to a room with the door closed.
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I have one word of advice for the wanker: consent.
He needs his roomie's consent to lie naked around the house. And he needs to give his roomie consent to gawk at him...
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You have a great weekend too!
If you want privacy to masterbate go to your room or do it when you are alone. Public areas in the home are viewing areas, Great idea to ask him to join along. Did he join you?
It sounds like Your Correspondent is comfortable with nudity, even wanking with his roommate. But I suspect he's not as comfortable as he claims to be! Even though they share a wank, is it just 'doing it' at the same time, as opposed to sitting close to each other on the couch, letting their bodies touch, and maybe trading hands?
--PaulMmn
Love the shot of the man shooting sploot on the shower door. As for the roommate situation, I don't get why, if he and his roomie jerk off together, it would suddenly bother him that the guy watches him pumping it. Like you said, if he wants privacy, do it in the bedroom with the door closed. Personally, I believe a man should be allowed to go into a public men's room, pump that meat, and shoot cum, and nobody would give a flying dusty fuck.
I would definitely say a private room like you said. I believe also the way he addressed the issue could have been a bit nicer as well. I know if that were me any plans for future bate sessions would either be off or I would have some mixed feelings towards bating with him taking how he responded.
@ Paulmmn - I didn't take the OP's message to mean that they ever wank together, just that they acknowledge they both indulge in the activity.
@ Hooter - It doesn't appear so. He says the guy got pissed off and walked away.
Our private life does not mean that we are deprived of our privacy.
But it is up to us to preserve it.
Have a great weekend, my beloved Jean and Pat.
Hugs and bisous.
French Patrick said it very well, It’s up to us to preserve our own privacy.
Either talk about it, or close the door, and not after the fact. Lots of people simply don’t realize where the boundaries are. So you just need to make it clear. It’s actually easier on them too.
TGIF Hugs and bisous.
French Patrick said it very well, It’s up to us to preserve our own privacy.
Either talk about it, or close the door, and not after the fact. Lots of people simply don’t realize where the boundaries are. So you just need to make it clear. It’s actually easier on them too.
TGIF Hugs and bisous.
I think it depends on location... If he's whacking off in a common area, roomy has ever right to watch. He really should join instead of gawking though...
wise words
I'm not here for your entertainment, but you are welcome to join me for mutual enjoyment.
Perhaps the increasing number of OnlyFans making money from voyeurism is leading some people to feel uncomfortable others getting it for free.
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