Explain Wet Dreams

 

"How do you explain wet dreams to a 11 year old?"

How would you explain them to any young kid? With complete candor. In the most basic terms: A wet dream is when you ejaculate semen during sleep.

Look, erections occur numerous times each night. The harder they get, the more sensitive they get. 

All it takes is one of those boners to be stimulated by any means to cause an ejaculation.

For boys your son's age, it doesn't even require dreaming about sex. The first wet dream is the body’s way of telling us everything is ready on the launch pad. That missile has already fired ammo. It’s all working the way it’s supposed to, right? 

Time to teach him he might be able to stop the wet dreams by jacking off. No guarantees, of course, because even adults have wet dreams. But, there you have it. It’s up to you to make sure he knows it’s normal, healthy, and nothing to be ashamed about at all.

It’s also time to make sure isn’t wearing anything below the waist when he sleeps.

Well, actually, it’s way past time for that.

 Better to have cum on the sheets

than deal with a busted boner.

The Dick Slip

 

"I get that guys get erections all the time and can’t hide them. I get that guys have the need to adjust the goods. I get that some guys like to go commando. But why do they feel the need to flash in public?"

Well, those flashes aren’t necessarily intentional. We don’t call it a “dick slip” for no reason. Sometimes it just happens. And, no, we don’t always realize it when it happens.

The best thing you can do in this situation depends on whether or not you know the guy. Or how well you know him. If he’s a close friend or relative, you might want to tell him, “The horse is out of the barn.” Or some wording of the nature that will alert him that his cock is showing.  If it’s a stranger, avert your gaze and go about your business. 

As Dear Abby mentioned several months ago, men's genitals are on the outside of the body and there is no reason anyone should be making a big deal out of seeing them.

Morning Blue Balls

"Why do my nuts ache first thing in the morning? It clears up after a while, but it’s very uncomfortable for an hour or two."

It could be one of two things: Sleep position, or arousal. Or even a combination of both. If you are a side/stomach sleeper, you might be placing body weight on your balls.

Before you go to sleep, pull the boys out from under you.

If you experience a prolonged erection, the lengthy arousal will cause the normal fluid build-up that is associated with vasocongestion, or what is commonly known as Blue Balls. Particularly if your dream turns sexual, which can increase the arousal. If you don’t ejaculate (have a wet dream), the vascular congestion isn’t released and you wake with aching balls.

As you’ve noted, the ache relieves itself after a while, because your physical movement is helping to push the fluid out. 

The only way to reduce the congestion immediately is to either exercise

Or cum.

History Repeats

 

December 1. World AIDS Day. A day to remember those who have succumbed to the disease, but also to make people aware of the fact that HIV/AIDS is still around.

The Granddaddy of all ribbon campaigns

Group masturbation grew out of the AIDS crisis with the opening of Jack Off Clubs to encourage men to have safe sex. The New York Jacks was among the first - if not the first - to open. Masturbation was encouraged by activist groups as an alternative to anal or oral sex before much at all was known about the virus. Of course, the backlash was harsh. Men didn't want to give up what they enjoyed, what is a natural urge: Sexual contact with another person.

Just like COVID-19, the more science was applied, the more we knew what we could and couldn't do to keep ourselves safe.

Now, here we are again. And masturbation is again being encouraged as a means of safe sexual release. Though, now, we are asked to remain completely alone in the endeavor. It's hard - if you'll pardon the pun.

Sex is important to our health and welfare,

but safe sex is paramount to our health and welfare.

Fellow blogger Sixpence has done a very wonderful post of the subject today. WAD 2020 It's really worth your time to go check it out.