Monday, May 12, 2014

Learn / Teach / Enjoy

When was the last time you jacked off in front of your spouse or partner? Have you ever??
Sadly, most people view jerking off as a last-ditch resolution; it should only be done when our balls ache and feel like they weigh 5 pounds each. They think masturbation is a poor substitute, a replacement for the "real thing." Even sadder, this attitude was started by men and is perpetuated by men.
But, the truth is jacking off is a wonderful supplement to sex. It should be done as a complement to sex. And we can learn so much about a long term relationship partner by masturbating for and with one another. I've jacked off in front of my wife many, many times over the years. Not in a hurried, "I just need to get my rocks off" kind of way either. Rather a nice slow, leisurely, pleasurable wank with a fountain of cum. And, I can't tell you how many blow jobs and hand jobs it's led to. As a result, she's gotten so much better at both.
But there have been many, many times she's offered to help and I've declined. The relaxed enjoyment, immense pleasure of extending the sensations for as long as I wanted was exceptional; the ability to shoot my load of jizz when I was good and ready made all the difference.
So, give it a try guys - especially all you straight, married dudes out there. Instead of hurriedly whacking off while sitting in the bathroom, or desperately pounding away in the shower
 - you'll be surprised at how liberating it is. If she asks what you're doing, tell her, "I just feel like jacking off."
Next time you're feeling a little horny, start slow by teasing your cock, get it good and hard before you shove a hand down your pants...
 Work up a nice slick pool of pre-cum for your cockhead to slide through.
 Play and tease, grab and massage your nuts so that when you do open your pants your cock pops and springs free, slapping against your stomach.

Then slowly stroke and play. Show them what you like done and how you like it done. Take all the time you want to build up that ejaculation, before you cum.







Your cock was meant to be enjoyed and masturbation is, or should be, a great part of that pleasure.


mistress maddie said...

Very good post. I don't know why people view jacking off like that. I think it's hot as hell! My ex and I almost always started out jacking off for each other before sex. I also have several friends gay and straight that I jack off with, and there is a older man I met out once who like to get together. He never touches me, but likes to watch me strip, work myself up and stoke my cock till I shoot. I do find that hot also.

Xersex said...

love the guy E-K!!!

O!Daddie now at said...

usually every day, whether I need it or not ☺☺☺☺

Anonymous said...

wow! so your wife watches you the whole time and you blast in front of her? thats hot! i'm a little nervious about that:)i like the teaching example for them,what is she doing while she watches?it would be great if she sucked my cock after i shot;)(don't think she would)btw- great post and pictures!

Justin said...

Love the pics today, wonderful jack off material.


Great post as always! Really hot pictures! Thanks, Patrick

a{GAY}tekeeper{iam} said...

been a while we can't help but give each other a helping hand

Upton King said...

Your photo essays speak volumes... and most of those dicks like they 'speak' volumes, too! Uptonking from Wonderland Burlesque

AOM said...

Beautifully stated, brother. Amen to everything you said. I wish you a beautiful day of stroking. Hugs and Strokes, AOM

whkattk said...

@ bob - Yeah, she usually watches the whole time, she'll even offer to go get a hand towel for me after I cum. Believe it or not lots of women really like watching a guy jerk off - they find it very erotic - especially if he's stroking in a sensuous way. You should definitely try some time. Really - she could surprise you!!

whkattk said...

@ mistress maddie - It is hot. And, if you want, it can very often turn into really hot sex!

whkattk said...

@ Upton - Thanks, bud! That's what I strive for.

Anonymous said...

Well said. My wife and I were married over 10 years before I jacked it in front of her. She eventually (after many months) "came" around, and it has contributed to better sex for both of us. It's as hot for me watching her do it as it appears it is for her watching me do it.

whkattk said...

@ Anon - Thanks, bud. It may take a spouse or partner a while to come around, to admit it turns her on, but it can totally enhance other sexual activity. Thanks for contributing to the conversation!