Mel Brooks and Sharon Stone have both been credited with saying, "Sex is like pizza, even if done bad, its still good."
I think everyone who has engaged in sexual activity knows the difference.
Women can have some intense orgasms. But they sure don't exhibit in the same manner as when a guy does. My first wife used to literally faint if she had a super intense orgasm. Just as the clitoris does, the closer a guy gets to cumming, his cock gets harder and harder. The more intense the orgasm, the stiffer it'll get. It's one of those steel rods, or "rock hard" boners.
They'll also increase in length and girth, the veins become more pronounced.
Another Urban Dictionary definition put this into words: Nuclear Cumplosion.
When you ejaculate so hard it destroys everything in a two mile radius.
A bit of hyperbole? Of course, but it does come close to describing what our intense and explosive ejaculations can seem like. Spurt after spurt, semen rockets out at a high velocity.
Sometimes the amount can amaze us - it's as if we haven't shot a load in weeks or months.
The end of it all leaves us breathless and happily exhausted.
Partner sex can do that, but so can solo fun. The higher the arousal, the longer we put off ejaculation by repeatedly getting close and backing off...we can achieve that level of satisfaction. And doing so - learning how to control when we cum - makes for better partner sex.
Learning is all in the practice. So, practice, practice, practice.
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