Tuesday, November 5, 2019

More Skilled In Oral

I just read an article by a writer I have admired for many years. It was all about the myths of men and sex. One myth is that men always think sex is good. "When sex is good, it's great; when sex is bad, it's still good."

The author contends we should never tell a partner the sex wasn't that good. I agree in theory. Expressing disappointment in a sexual encounter can be hurtful. But it doesn't have to be that way. We all need to be more skilled in oral sex.


Learn to communicate with a sexual partner and the sex will (almost) always be good. Learn what feels good for you and express it verbally. We learn by doing.


And by watching one another.

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Don't forget: It's Movember.
Do the right thing.
Get 'em checked.

10 comments:

Your French Patrick said...

I thought Movember was the mustache celebration in November, the Mo Bros' hairs having to be concentrated only above the upper lip, what excludes the pubic hairs. But, in fact I rather believe that you know that, and that the choice of the last illustration is only due to your humour.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat. Have a great day.

AOM SoulFood said...

So much fun getting better - open communication and the freedom to explore - both good ways to keep evolving into better lovers. I hope all is well with you and yours, Buddy. Wishing you a deeeelicious day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

SickoRicko said...

Communication is always key. Great post!

JiEL said...

I love what you expressed here because to me, oral sex is more appealing and satisfying than anal sex.
I did try anal sex some years ago and this was almost always hurting and not that much fun.

Even if I jack off no BB porn videos, I must admit that to me, a penis is better served by a good blowjob.
Also, I love to rim and get rimmed and have my balls sucked etc..

As you say, communication is the most important to please your partner and vice versa.

Mistress Maddie said...

Just speaking for myself, when it comes to sucking cock, one should take time and titillate first before going hole hog on the cock. I like to barely lick and kiss the cock for some time before going down and getting to town.

JeanWM said...

The bedroom is not the best place for feedback, but perfect for encouragement. A chat later when both are in good moods, the best time.
Hugs and bisous and thanks for all the folks who voted today!

whkattk said...

@ JiEL - Same here...didn't enjoy it at all. Anal videos don't interest me, either.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes sex can cause physical injury or force you to remember past trauma.

Anonymous said...

For the last pic: how is the move called when you lift up your low hanging balls and be like this:

https://xhamster.com/videos/sexy-hot-young-guy-shows-arse-edges-cock-and-hanging-ballls-11800079

(See the 4:10-4:15 mark to see what I mean)

Anonymous said...

What's the thing you do with your balls when you lift them up like this:

https://xhamster.com/videos/sexy-hot-young-guy-shows-arse-edges-cock-and-hanging-ballls-11800079

See the 4:10-4:15 mark to see what I mean.