"Your post today says we should be able to ask for something without reprisal I think you said if that's what we want. Well I have two roommates and we jerk off together sometimes. We even stroke each others dicks. Its cool, its fun, and I have been wanting for a long time to try sucking a guys dick. Do you it would be okay if I asked them to let me try it?"
Of course. What's the worst thing they can do? They might say, "No." What have you lost except the opportunity to do something you've wanted to try?
But, here's how to approach it if you're afraid to come right out and ask them to let you try:
"I wonder what it's like to suck a cock?"
I wouldn't be surprised if both volunteered to let you find out.
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It kind of blows my mind that straight men just sit down and jerk off together. No kissing? No lending a hand? Anyways, I think that what he's looking for is consent. If he's going to do anything with someone who has not expressly manifested desire to have their dick sucked, he has to ask.
But really. I think I could count with one hand the men who do NOT like to have their dick sucked. Really.
XOXO
I haven't met a guy yet that said no if a could suck his dick.
GO FOR IT!
The answer is obvious, he has just to ask. At worst he will receive a refusal but that is not fatal. And even if this is the reflex of the one who refuses, he is likely to change his mind in the foreseeable future after having made progress in his reflection.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
We should be able to ask for what we want without fear of reprisal, but that doesn't mean we can cross the line by demanding it, keep harassing for it, coerce or take it by force.
Unfortunately homophobia results in some men feeling threatened and that fear can be expressed as anger and aggression, even over simply asking for what we want. That is why so many feel afraid to ask, in case of an angry reprisal, and why most requests are done indirectly or in a way that it can be made into a joke or excused as in "I was so drunk, I didn't know what I was doing".
In fact I think alcohol is used as an excuse to engage in sex for men and women alike, because we are too afraid of rejection or reprisal to do it openly.
The incident with the massage therapist and his Father is a prime example of how fearful we are about openly asking for what we want and have to beat about the bush and test the waters first: we simply can't know how another person will respond in advance.
That's why the response to the enquiry of this post is to take an indirect approach of saying "I wonder what it is like to suck a cock" for safety.
If you are already engaging in cock play with another man, some of that fear has already been defused and so being more open and saying something like "I have been curious about what sucking a cock is like: is that something you would be interested in trying?" is not quite so risky.
I don't know if the writer and roommates have a private bathroom for just the three... If they do, have your stroke-a-buddy sessions evolved to taking showers together? If not, why not up the ante and join a buddy in the shower? Offer to wash his back!
Washing a buddy can lead to all sorts of other fun-- washing a back soon leads to washing everything you can get your hands on! And, while you're on your knees washing his legs, I'll bet your face gets whapped with a piece of man meat, ready for a friendly mouth to, uh, take it 'in hand' and suck out its juice!
--PaulMmn
...or, the original writer could wait until everyone was close to the top of the hill, and just wrap his lips around a cock that looks ripe.
--PaulMmn
Do you know what video the stills of the two blonde guys lying on the carpet are from? I should very much like to watch that video.
Hmmm... what a nice relationship to have with a roommate. It seems to be the thing of fiction... but, I guess its possible.
I hope his wishes come true!
Before I came out, I was "straight" and even had a fiancee. I used to eat her out a LOT when we had sex. Finally, she tried to give me a blow job; when she was done and I kissed her, and tasted [my] cock on her lips, I knew I wanted to suck a cock then and there.
We broke up shortly after, and I came out a few weeks after that. LOVE sucking cock and I never looked back.
@ Rad - Nice... Thank you so much for sharing that. Maybe the OP will see it and be encouraged.
@ Anon - I don't. Sorry!
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