The Long Shot



Half-mast



Full hard-on

     Yesterday’s post explained that the key to being able to cum more is prolonged arousal; spending a number of hours with your cock at half-mast. And, you’ve started doing those Kegels to build up the muscles that anchor the root of your cock so the prolonged arousal can now turn into heightened arousal (i.e. a huge rock hard erection) – you have, haven’t you? Good. Now you must begin to pay closer attention to the way your body gathers each shot.

You know your cum doesn’t spew out in one continuous stream. It doesn’t flow. You’re not taking a whizz for crying out loud! It’s jettisoned. It’s like cocking a gun, I guess. The muscles surrounding the prostate contract and load the chamber as the anchor tendons surrounding the root relax for a millisecond. Then there is a strong spasm that sends cum firing through your barrel. (Gay guys, bear with me a minute here.) When men are with the female of our species, the best orgasms are when we cum at the same time. That’s because women’s vaginal muscles contract in such a manner as to squeeze along the shaft of our dicks; in essence pulling (or milking) our jizz through the shaft so it will spray as deeply into the vagina as possible to increase the chances of fertilization.

The stroke moves up the shaft with the flow of cum

That being said… To accomplish the same effect when you jack off, use your hand to do the same thing. But you have to be able to recognize when the chamber has been loaded, the gun has been cocked and the trigger is pulled slamming the hammer down on the firing pin. Your hips can give you a decent clue here.

When we cum, guys, our hips will thrust forward each time we send a shot out. That’s the natural rhythm in sex. But for some reason, when we take matters into our own hands, the tendency is to pound away like there’s no tomorrow; our hand flailing up and down the shaft in a rapid blur of short strokes. Learn to control your strokes. It can be a little tricky, because the natural placement is to thrust through your closed fist – essentially clamping down on the shaft, stroking in the opposite direction as it’s attempting to unload a shot. In doing so, you oppose the direction of flow.

You have to reverse your strokes when you cum to nurture the force when you shoot. Loosen your grip and grab the base of your cock as the chamber loads up full of cum. Squeeze your fist closed just below the small bulge (you should be able to feel it with the edge of your palm). Clamp down with those root muscles. And run your closed fist up your shaft when the shot fires and your hips thrust. The result should be a blast of jizz roaring out. Stroke back down to the base for the next one. Of course the power behind each squirt still weakens, but if you learn this technique you’ll feel the difference.

Another example of stroking up with the shot.

     Combine this with building up a good head of steam before you ever pull your dick out of your pants and you’ll enjoy a more satisfying orgasm when you jack off and unload. It’ll take practice, but think how good it’ll feel while you’re doing it! Maybe you could gather a few buds and practice together!