Monday, May 18, 2015

Feel Free

As good friend and blogger AOM has pointed out, we are heading toward the final turn of Masturbation Month. I sure hope the month-long celebration opens some minds.
The way our father dealt with jerking off - a razor strap to ass and thighs until bruised and bleeding - it became apparent our mother might have been a bit more accepting. Perhaps it's because she grew up on a farm with five brothers.
During summer months, my brother and I, along with a buddy, would "camp out" in the back yard. Which simply meant blankets and sleeping bags spread out on the lawn at the rear portion of the property. Though it remained within full view of the house. We would always wait until the lights went out, then wait another twenty minutes or so for insurance, then the pants would come off.
We'd stroke our boners, play with each other's cocks and balls, for as long as we could take it before spewing the load. This particular night, I'd straddled them in turn. I came all over our buddy's crotch and then used it for lube. My brother watched while he continued to jack. Right after I got our buddy to the brink and he shot a gigantic load of jizz across his torso, my brother rolled to his side and shot.


I rolled off our friend, laid between him and my brother, and, fully sated, we all drifted off to sleep.
The next day, I happened to mention to my mom that we'd been awake until almost 2:00am. She responded with, "I know. I watched you from the door upstairs." That was all she said. I was scared out of my mind, sure that as soon as my dad got home my brother and I would again be assaulted with the razor strap. Thankfully, it didn't happen.
Brothers and buddies jacking off together - even lending a hand - is so, so common.
Yet, once we grow up and get married it seems to be considered wrong, or gay. Let me simply state: Mutual masturbation has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

11 comments:

AOM said...

Amen, brother! It is the most natural thing to enjoy together. Let's stroke up and enjoy the last half of Masturbation Month!: ) Hugs and Strokes with you, bro. AOM

Queer Heaven said...

Before I started my "gay" life, my net door buuddy and I used to hide in the bushes in his back yard and enjoy jerking off together. One day his older sister caught us.... boy was there hell to pay!!

Xersex said...

on the contrary, I feel masturbation as a private act. or at least as a preliminar of sucking dickS (or being sucked)

LORD PATRICK said...

Great story with wonderful images to illustrate! Hugs, Patrick

Your French Patrick said...

Thank you, my dear Pat, for this travel both in the time and in your life. A gripping and hopeful narration, indeed, just like the real thing. I felt actually like I was there. Can you come back and verify, if you please?
In this wait, I wish you a wondrous day, my dear friend, with a lot of tender bisous and comforting hugs.

Jean said...

Mothers can be very wise. Teachable moment you never forgot and have passed on.

Anonymous said...

summer days ;) i remember playing with my dick for hours behind our shed(and inside;)houses were close,dont really know if neighbors ever looked and watched ;)) than as i got older i started bringing girls ;))
bob

SickoRicko said...

Great story and great pix!

(I'm going to send you a link about circumcision and masturbation. It's kinda long.)

Fullmoonma said...

For a gay boy, like me, mutual masturbation, the few times it happened for me in my teens, was a beacon. One kid was a straight neighbor, the other a gay roommate in the years well before that was even talked about. The difference was that I wasn't doing it to just my rocks off, but to explore my gay feelings. Other gay men have told me similar stories. It may make straight guys uncomfortable to hear this. Jacking off with buddies doesn't mean you're gay - but it ups the ante if you are!

whkattk said...

@ Jean - I never thought of it that way. Thank you. Perhaps this is why my relationship with my mom was so much better than the one with my dad.

whkattk said...

@ Fullmoonma - Well, yes, I think you're correct. Mutual jerking off can up the ante if the proclivity is already there. Perhaps helps a guy become more comfortable with who he is.