Monday, May 11, 2015

No Better Time

Yesterday being Mother's Day here in the U.S., the wife's family gathered for the afternoon. Once the initial greetings had been made and everyone settled in, everyone wanted to know why my BIL and his wife didn't have the oldest son in tow. Apparently, he was being moody, and surly. In other words, quite typical behavior for a young man his age, about to head off to college this Fall.
I leaned into my BIL's wife, "When you leave, stop and buy a bottle of lube and a hand towel. When you get home, hand them to him, and tell him to go into his room, close the door, jerk off, and not come out until he's got a smile on his face."



She laughed, of course, and I smiled. But the words and advice were serious. At her son's age, all guys are still going through hell. "Growing pains" are not a myth, not an old wive's tale. The body does hurt, there's an ache deep in the bones. Hormones are raging, our cocks just won't behave (sometimes no matter how frequent we jack off), our balls ache.



Mentally, we are still confused as to where we're headed, what we're supposed to do with our lives. We're antsy and anxious from pent-up sexual energy, yet (for most families) discouraged from doing anything about it. Or we feel we must hide the efforts.
It's especially important for guys his age to examine the sexual responses, to experiment, and learn from them.




There's no better time to encourage young guys to learn, to do, than during this annual month long celebration.


Your French Patrick said...

In France, the Mother's Day will be on the 31th of May.
It's stupid to have different dates according to the country.

You are right, it's very important to lubricate. At the woman, the vaginal lubrication goes hand in hand with hers excitement, it is not at all the case for the anus. Best is to use a hydrosoluble, hypoallergenic lubricating jelly of course. The saliva also suits well, and in any case it's better than nothing. We have to be carefull however on not to use fat substances (oil, soap, butter, etc.) which make porous condoms.

Sorry to leave you, my very dear friend, I must go to my son.
Bisous, not only to lubricate but because I love you.

Queer Heaven said...

It really is a shame that everyone does not have the open attitude about jerking off that you do.

AOM said...

Awesome banner - great to see you get it centered. Great advice - I agree with QH - masturbation should be celebrated by all. Thanks for all you do, buddy. Lovin' and Huggin' and Strokin' you,bro. AOM

Xersex said...

how old are your children?


Very hot selection! Great advice! I wish I'd had someone as wise as you about when I was growing up. Thanks for your visits and comments. Sorry, no dancers this week, perhaps next week! Hugs, Patrick

a{GAY}tekeeper{iam} said...

no better time indeed

SickoRicko said...

I was amazed at how bold you were.

SteveXS said...

Hot gallery, great opening shot.

SteveXS said...

And great advice.

O!Daddie now at said...

Not really something that my sons ever wanted to discuss with me. They apparently did manage to get it all together though, since they are both happily co-habitating with their girlfriends??

whkattk said...

@ O!Daddie - I think most sons are afraid to talk about these things with a parent. This is why it is important to be open and honest. My BIL openly admits he jacks off, has said so in front of his oldest son. That alone opens the door for conversation. I think too many wait for their children to come to them to ask questions, rather than parents seeking a way to begin a dialogue.

whkattk said...

@ Xresex - no children...I'm sterile due to childhood illnesses: Mumps and Scarlet Fever ensured I shoot nothing but blanks.

Justin said...

It's fairly certain pic 6 will turn up on my blog in the near future.
Great post.
I would pay to rediscover that feeling of being young and so so horny.
I have 2 older brothers and they knew what I was I was doing when I went to the toilet during a football match...for the second time.
Back then I just couldn't wait to knock one out.

Xersex said...

one of the reasons I am happy to be gay, is not able to have children!!!!