Will You Look at That (Cock)

No, I mean really look at it. Remember the film Fried Green Tomatoes? There's a scene where a group of women gather to become acquainted and more comfortable with their genitals by inspecting them with a mirror. It's a very funny scene, the Kathy Bates character leaves, but later gives it a try on her own.

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How many of you have ever done this? Guys, give it a try. Get a hand mirror, or sit in front of a mirror, and look. I mean, really look. Inspect your entire package; the ballsac, the perineum, the shaft, the head, the foreskin (if you're intact), lightly massage the balls and roll them around in your fingers.

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Touch everything using different amounts of pressure, run a finger along and around things. Pay close attention to the sensations. Notice what makes your cock begin to get hard, where the most sensitive places are.

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Once you know your own, it can make all sex more exciting, more sensuous, make it last longer. Because it's not the ejaculation - though, yes, we all know how incredible that feels - it's the road to the big explosion. The building up to it that can bring the most pleasure.

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Here in the U.S., Monday is a holiday, so for most of us anyway it's a three-day weekend. Take an afternoon and inspect your package. Every millimeter of it. Take your time. Enjoy a long, leisurely exploratory trip to the finish line.

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Typically, when guys reach the point of no return - when their balls have pulled up and the storm has gathered - there's this tendency to stroke furiously to quickly spew.

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Just this once: Don't. Resist the temptation. Keep a nice slow and steady rhythm. You'd be surprised how much more aware you will be of each spurt, as it collects in preparation. You'll be able to track it as it makes it's way up the shaft and blasts free.

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