The Road to Better Enjoyment

We had just finished watching I Am Cait (which we're enjoying and find fascinating) and I had taken a piss break.

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I came back in the middle of the conversation for the opening scene of Stewart's and Hamilton's or Hamilton's and Stewart's or whatever their reality show is titled (*sigh* there's just way too much air time to fill - that's my opinion, anyway).

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So, some of the gang are in an SUV headed to dinner I guess, and Dean says, "Guys wake up with boners every morning."

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One of the women (I can't keep them straight) pipes up from the back seat, interrupting him, "I don't want to hear or know about those things!"

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(Big, long, heavy sigh.) ... I think we should talk about cocks and boners and balls more often - and not just amongst us guys.

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It makes me truly appreciate the Ladies who frequent this blog. Especially ones like CJ, who still stops by once in a while, and Jean, who contributes much to the conversations here. What we men have and how it all functions and why things work the way they do is important information.

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Baseline facts are what help us determine if an issue is serious enough to seek medical attention - before it's too late. We joke that these are our prized possessions,

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Why not learn all you can about them? It's the road to better enjoyment of them.

Balls, Glorious Balls

Balls? Already? You're wondering if I've gotten lost in the calendar. No, I have been asked by a Faithful Reader, via email, about Testicle Massage.

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He follows a Tumblr which regularly espouses the benefits of ball massage with this repeated message: “Explore testicle massage. It increases your testosterone levels. It makes you more horny and you cum more. It’s easy.”

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While I can understand the basis of the belief because massaging any portion of the body increases blood flow, I cannot find any concrete medical evidence that massaging one's nuts promotes the production of Testosterone. It is produced while we sleep, which is why a blood test to determine our levels is always done as soon as possible after we wake.

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As for the horny part - well, duh! In a poll by a women's magazine a number of years ago asked men what they wished the ladies would do more of during sex. The overwhelming response was, "Play with my balls." So, it makes sense that massaging your man-berries would increase your level of arousal.

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More cum? Well, now, the longer we play, the more aroused we are for that extended time, the more fluids get produced to build a gathering storm. So, that part makes perfect sense as well. Sort of like the get hard-play-stop for a while-repeat that we discussed earlier in the week. (BTW, if you'd like a perfect example of that, go read the comment Faithful Reader Fullmoonma left yesterday.)

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But the moral of the statement is that ball massage feels good. Go ahead, you've got an entire weekend to enjoy yourselves.

Edging or Gooning

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Your French Patrick, friend and Faithful Reader, asks if I had addressed "edging" - if perhaps he'd missed it somewhere in yesterday's post. I've posted about it before, but it bears repeating.

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Edging is not the same as keeping your cock hard for continual, mindless play.

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It isn't, as some people believe, deliberately halting before an ejaculation, allowing the boner to wilt,

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and returning to sexual activity hours later.

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That is purposely delaying (avoiding) the orgasm which, as Faithful Reader, the beautiful Mistress Maddie indicates, can lead to an explosive, voluminous ejaculation.

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Edging takes mindful concentration because it is bringing yourself to, and remaining right on the edge of the "point of no return," with continued constant cock stimulation. Some guys refer to it as "gooning," because they are so lost in the pleasure that they are no longer aware of anything but the heightened sensations.

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While women can edge, too, being capable of multiple orgasm I don't know why they would want to edge. While some ladies would love to be able to cum easier, I think a lot of guys would love to achieve the multiple orgasm.

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Go ahead, give it a try. If you succeed in remaining on the verge of cumming for a lengthened period of time, 

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the eventual explosion should result in a larger, more forceful than normal geyser.

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Prolong the Boner and Delay the Cum

"Oh, shit! No, not yet!" Though women may frequently face difficulty in achieving them, cumming too soon (premature ejaculation) can be an issue for a lot of guys. If you look at the definition of it, you'd wonder why all men don't complain about it because Premature Ejaculation (PE) is blasting off before one wants to and it happens to all of us once in a while.

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What's disappointing about it is that the orgasm isn't truly satisfying. I mean, sure...the release feels good, but...

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If it happens on occasion, it's fine. It's normal. If you suffer from it all the time, well, it's a problem that should be addressed. And the solution is simple and inexpensive. Desensitizing spray

or cream

is readily available.

Now, lest you guys think, "Oh, I'm a real cocksman, I don't need that shit." let me suggest to you that you might want to give it a try. Why? Well, it really does help you last longer.

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Some guys in our Jack Off Group would use this stuff and they could stroke away,

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or have someone else going to town on that boner for 2 or 3 hours without blasting their load.

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So, it's really a matter of prolonging the enjoyment rather than a comment on sexual prowess. It's a matter of getting it up 

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 and keeping it up for a good long time.

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