"Would somebody convince my ex about that? She was a bit crazy before we split but now she's bat-shit nuts! She came home from work sick last week to discover our two sons and a few friends of the older one in his room naked and jerkingoff. She kicked my oldest son out of the house and forbids him to see his brother or she'll call the cops and have him arrested for molesting his younger brother. The oldest is now with me, though she fought for full custody during the divorce and won. My sons are devastated. The youngest says his mother is hasselling him every day and he's really kind of fucked up over this. I tell him he's normal like every other guy, she tells him its awful and he's disgusting. He wants to come live with me and his brother and I'm at a total loss."
Oh, good fucking lord! Chain her up and force her watch a bunch of solo videos. No, I know that can't happen. I'm no lawyer, but I think both of your sons need one. (Not the same one, though.) The older son just in case his mother decides to follow through on the threat. Those kinds of charges are serious and could follow him the rest of his life. It's no joke and shouldn't be taken lightly. I'd get one on retainer fast! If you can't afford it, consult with your county legal services.
The younger son needs one to petition the court for a new custody hearing. You could file for custody, but chances are you'd lose (again). Depending on your son's age, any decent judge will grant his request. But I think HE has to be the one to do it.
First, guys jack off. It's normal, it's healthy. That's all there is to it. And shame on your ex for trying to convince your sons otherwise.
It's very common for brothers to jack off together.
Guys of your sons' age are naturally curious about one another's cocks and whether all their buddies jack off - and how often. This is why circle jerks are such a common thing between friends as they're growing up.
And it often turns to all kinds of games.
Who can cum first, or last, or the most, or the farthest.
Yeah, even challenges to cum on something and then see who will be brave enough to eat it.
And, yes, at some point along the line, they'll reach out to touch and stroke one another's cocks.
It's all quite normal, quite natural, and doesn't necessarily cease with age, regardless of sexual orientation.
I hope you are able to make your sons believe it. And continue to educate them about their bodies and what they can expect.
They'll be happier, more well-adjusted adults if you do.
Any legal folks care to help out here?