Just Imagining

Thank you for the emails and comments. They help bolster my mood.

Improvement peeks over the edge for a few minutes but shortly thereafter disabling pain roars into the lead. Falling into fitful sleep, waking to what seems an eternity in pain day after day gets tedious. Massive amounts of painkillers help but they're not really good for the body. No opioids - I would never desire to go down that rabbit hole. 

Full days of pampering sounds good right about now. Lying on a beach with the sun shining down on me. Listening to the waves. Getting a healing massage. More lying on the beach.

Just imagining makes me feel better. 😎

Best I Can

Not doing too well the last few days.

Sorry, this is the best I can muster.

Popped a Few Buttons

"I went into Walmart tonight and this woman accosted me and accused me of "flashing." She was pretty nasty about it and even went so far as to threaten to call the police! I had on a pair of old comfortable button fly jeans which I always wear commando. Evidently a few of the buttons popped open. I was totally unaware of it but it's not like my dick was flopping around in full view. I didn't know what to say in response I was so stunned by her attack. All I did was turn away, look down, and button up. What would be a kind response if this ever happens again?"

Has this woman seen the People of WalMart photos?!?! If she gets upset by a bit of a guy's bits via a partially unbuttoned fly, she's got bigger problems than seeing a bit of cock in a public place.

Good for you for taking some time to go commando in the jeans. Especially if you wear briefs all the time. A man's crotch gets warm and carries moisture and may cause a yeast infection.

According to Healthline, "A yeast infection is caused by a fungus called candida. A small amount of candida is usually present on the body. All it takes is an overgrowth of candida to develop a yeast infection. A moist environment is ideal for candida to spread."

Taking some time to allow things to air out is a good idea and one way to do that is going commando. But, that wasn't your question. 

As much as I would've been tempted to snap or snarl in response to her threat, I probably would've responded with something like, "Oops. Sorry, I didn't realize I'd popped a few buttons. Thanks for telling me."

Being Reminded

I love the answers to yesterday's posed question. In particular those from two of my Faithful Readers, Jean and Xersex.

Jean said, "Porn without hate, fear, abuse. .... Pat does a great job teaching us, I like the teachable moments."
Xersex said, "...For me it was a sexual education even before having real sex."

Education and teachable moments. Thank you. I hope that's what I accomplish here, though I don't manage it with each and every post.

While I was in FL with my brother, we didn't worry about being naked and we have both been to nude beaches and stuff. He, however, apparently, needed a bit of educating himself. At 70-years old, that came as a bit of a surprise to me.

He and his family belong to a nudist resort; he even works the front desk at times. Nudist/naturist beaches and resorts are not about sex. They're places to relax free from restrictive clothing. Problems arise, he says, from young guys buying Day Passes. He said they have a tendency to run around waving their wood and he has to tell them to leave. 

My response, of course, was "Hey, they can't control that." He argued. "No, I said, cocks have a mind of their own. But, the guys could adhere to the etiquette of nude beaches and drape a towel over the boner, or lie on their stomach, until the thing softens up." He looked at me for a brief moment, then agreed.

I don't think that was as much a teachable moment as being reminded of what it was like to be young, healthy, and horny. Wood happens.

Healthy Porn

Once in a while I like to scroll through the Stats on this blog to see what brought people to it. The Google search word/phrase which brought a couple readers to this blog: healthy porn gif.

I think I really like that. Because porn can be healthy as long as it doesn't take over your life, or give you an unrealistic view of what sex is or should be. For instance, just because you see photos of "facials" on the internet doesn't mean the person you're out with expects or enjoys it. Healthy "porn" is a way to discover (through images) what arouses you. That can be anything from underwear bulges or the innocent nude in repose

to erotic posing

to penetrative activity.

Or anything in between.

What does "healthy porn" mean to you?