Tuesday, February 19, 2019

Hands-on Human Connection

Technology has evolved and sex play has evolved with it. From the early days of sitting alone at a computer, scrolling through photos and (probably) jacking off to joining in on cyber-sex video chat. But, what effect is it having on our daily lives?

We are seeing one positive effect. Men are becoming more comfortable with the idea that stroking cock with a few buddies is an acceptable way to get off; now believing "brojobs," or "buddy bating," are a good thing. That's a positive because we no longer have to restrict our enjoyment to what mainstream society has historically found to be acceptable.


Part of the attraction, I think, is that, while masturbation is a great outlet, surfing the internet or leafing through magazines for solo stroking can get...well, lonely. 
 A means to an end.
In the midst of the "me too" movement, there is no better way to have a fear-free, hands-on human connection.




 
Thoughts?

10 comments:

Xersex said...

I don't search no more for porn movies! For me sex is to be enjoyed with real body-(ies). Note that I love pornography! but I do not research it anymore.

SickoRicko said...

I agree that it can be lonely if one gets release only from watching online stuff.

Your French Patrick said...

Able to change techniques continuously to mimic the unpredictable and varied movements of oral sex between human beings, the "Autoblow AI" is the first sex toy with artificial intelligence to provide blowouts more real than life.
The next step is maybe to make love with drones?
You are right, we do not stop progress. But we must not confuse novelty and progress.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

AOM SoulFood said...

Back in the early days of the personal computer, I could not walk past a computer without getting a boner. : ) The thing I have appreciated the most is how men are more comfortable talking about all the issues we have as men. Before, men never discussed such things with each other- especially sexual stuff - not eye to eye. But today, men can explore their sexuality in a fairly safe space. Today, I don't feel so alone when it comes to things I like - I've learned that if I like it, there are many men who like the same thing. Before I just figured I was the only one and was just weird or something. So while it has it's problems, I do love the age of the personal computer where one can be personal with out fear.

Hope all is well with you, my Friend. Hugs, Licks and Strokes, AOM

taotrojan said...

Good words said my bro.

Anonymous said...

I fully agree with this! I’ve shared a bare or two with guys online and it’s phenomenal! I didn’t grow up bating with other dudes and never really had the opportunity to learn about many approaches to maaturbation before the Internet.

Anonymous said...

There was a time when I would be using the computer for work stuff and couldn’t do the work for the urge to look at NSFW sites. Addiction to NSFW sites are a reality but through counseling and having chat buddies I was able to kick the addiction.

Mark Greene said...

When I watch porn on my computer I prefer to be by myself. I don't like watching porn with others because either I'm distracted by the person when I'm watching or the porn is distracting me when I'm being intimate. when I'm with a buddy or buddies I want to have full attention on them. When watching porn I like to be alone and have full attention on that.

Anonymous said...

FWIW, I'm pretty sure circle jerks were only taboo for a few decades. At least before you graduated college.

Anonymous said...

well me and my brother sure enjoy hands on human connection not only us together but with our buddies jacking together is awesome - r