Friday, May 3, 2019

Jack-off or Masturbate?

This is a scheduled post since I am at a conference.
Masturbation. Why does a session begin? How often is it planned?
Lately, It seems that most guys sit down with computer, tablet, or phone to surf porn; it's deliberate. They use the images (guys are visual, after all) and a hand to work up a good hard-on. The manual stimulation adds to the visual, and fuels the fantasizing.



It all adds up to (they hope) an explosive ejaculation, cum spewing forth to great effect.

 It's done and they walk away. But that's just jacking off.
Sure it felt good. The balls feel better. But how often does it just...happen? Where it's not planned, there's no porn involved, no ogling of other people, no thought behind it. Your cock rises of its own volition and a hand just navigates its way without thought.


That's masturbation.
It creates a time of self-exploration. It takes the time to enjoy the pleasure your body can experience. It guides you in when and how you undress.

And how long it takes to reach orgasm.
During this month-long celebration, take the time to rediscover the pleasure in your body.
How does your masturbation begin?
Are you a planner, or does it just happen?

7 comments:

SickoRicko said...

Lately there's been nothing as I'm dealing with depression.

Xersex said...

I'm a planner!

Happy week end!

Your French Patrick said...

Pat, I hope your conference went as you wanted.
Have a great weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Hugs and bisous.

Mistress Maddie said...

I almost always jack off in the morning before work to get the dick down. At night after I'm home, anywhere between I get home and bed I almost always masturbait a length of time and really get into it. I sometimes even insert a dildo to hit the spot while I'm jacking. It enhances my organisms greatly. Sometimes there may be another session in the day somewhere.

Anonymous said...

I would say that 75% of my personal pleasure time is planned (porn or some other erotic scenario). The other 25% would be when the erection is spontaneous and I need to get that release so I can carry on with my day. And boy, an erect cock can definitely take over! LOL!

Fullmoonma said...

I'm very much a planner - set up goals to accomplish tasks and figure out what order and when as I go along. I have a general goal to have 2 or 3 masturbation sessions every day totaling about an hour. But I share a 3 room dwelling with a partner and finding a good opportunity takes some waiting, since we rarely bate together. So mostly I "plan" to masturbate when I have the place to myself. And I'm aware of the clock and his schedule. Sessions seem to be triggered by reading blogs with great writing and pix, like this one, or a hot scene in a novel, or the need to get my exercises done (alternating exercise sets with triple try orgasms), or a swollen penis in the middle of the nigh, and as I get hornier by internal stimuli. I can't imagine waiting for a hardon (that would be a long wait!) or creating a schedule in advance. Writing this comment has my dick pretty swollen - so if you'll excuse me, I think I have a task to do!

whkattk said...

@ Rick - I'm very sorry to hear this. I hope you can ease out of it soon.