A question about Wednesday's post.
From the Mail Bag:
"As a woman who's been married for more than 5 years I get that my husband isn't always going to be interested in sex. But why would he turn me down and then I find him on the couch with his dick in his hand and masturbating?"
Oddly enough, Dear Abby addressed this the other day, too. Sort of. That woman complained her husband (after 4 months of marriage) wasn't interested in sex. Abby said maybe he was stressed out or had a lot on his mind. My answer will differ from that because chances are really good that guy is masturbating, too.
Guys jack off for all kinds of reasons. One of them is because we aren't in the mood to deal with satisfying a partner; we just want to get our nuts off. But, in your husband's case, he may have turned you down but then couldn't get to sleep.
Blowing a load isn't only a good stress reliever, it's a great sleep aid. So, he moved out to the couch where he wouldn't disturb you.
If it bothers you, it shouldn't. But if you want to help out, you can. Next time you notice this, walk out, kneel between his legs and suck him off.
But, when you approach him, you have to let him know you do not expect anything in return; you're there to help him out. Trust me, he'll remember that selfless act and appreciate it.
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It's Movember.
Get 'em checked
6 comments:
"it's a great sleep aid"
so true!!!
It's also quite possible that he just didn't have the energy for partner sex but still needed to blow a load.
Indeed, I think that she does not risk much by trying to suck him. Or to jerk him off, if he prefers.
Have a great weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat. Hugs and bisous.
I honestly think if folks spent as much time talking to each other as they do looking at their cell phones....
Happy Weekend! Hugs and bisous.
Sometimes I think women just don't understand men. And the same could be said of men understanding women. Not sure of the married couples ages, but I really have no idea because I am single. I do think this is probably a young woman, and who knows maybe the two of them weren't really ready to marry? Sometimes I think couples rush into marriage as more of a financial partnership the whole two incomes better than one.
@ Jean - Good point. Maybe guys need to learn the cell phone can be used for more than checking scores and porn. :-)
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