I feel like I've run right smack into a stone wall. Ugh. The whole body aches and I'm longing for a massage.
The full-body massage with a literal happy ending always helps relieve the pain, and keeps the muscle cramps at bay for at least a few days.
But, that isn't going to happen even though the Gov gave massage the green light a month ago.
It doesn't feel safe enough. Not with the underlying condition of Muscular Dystrophy. I'm going to have to be satisfied doing what I can on my own.
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Oh I too would love to have a massage! It's been too long and I usually get one once a season, sometimes twice. Many I know have either folded up or went under those you do massage or the massage with happy ending. They just didint feel safe doing it, as well as some clients were worried too. WE even had two day spas even close here. I really could use a spa day. That was my reward. Hair cut, deep massage, facial, body wrap, and then ended with a mani and pedi! Talk about a pile of puddy when done.
I hope you get some relief soon!
Could you get the wife to give you a massage?
Oh, Big.
I didn't know you actually NEEDED the massage! I think you should get one of those machines that send electric signals to the muscles to get massages until we go back to 'normal'.
And I've only have a full body massage twice in my life. It is VERY relaxing. I've never had it done by a man, though. I wonder how that'd be...
XOXO
I think it will be useful and good for you!
I understand your longing for a good massage. These days we're all touch-hungry. I need some physical touch and intimacy that I sometime get from massage. A happy ending is always a bonus, too.
The benefits of massage are many, including the relaxation of tense, tight muscles that bring comfort to areas of pain or stress. But don't we just need human touch! A few years ago I joined an online site that encourages mutual massage exchanges. I've had mixed results, but a few really good ones. I prefer to match up with men (and there are very few women on the site). I've invited a few guys to my home where I have a massage table and oils ready. It's not a professional massage, but we help each other out. I always find relief and relaxation. I've met a few really nice guys there too.
On the exchange site, you have an option to seek therapeutic or erotic massage (or both). In the connections I've made, no one has ever requested therapeutic. Many are needing that sense of intimate bonding.I can't wait for it to feel safe enough to continue these sessions. It's probably even more important for those who need the physical benefits.
I am not an expert in the matter, but I think it is better to do it on the massage table of a masseur than alone on the floor (photo 1) or in a sofa (last two photos)
Good luck for your massage, dear Pat.
Hugs and bisous, my dear valued darlings Jean and Pat.
Well, at least you have one well-massaged muscle. Maybe one of your poolside chums could help you out? What are friends for?
Isn't there anyone in your life who is willing to perform a massage and happy ending, or does it have to be someone specially trained for the massage?
I'm missing giving and receiving massages too. I'm hoping that once we know more about antibodies and maybe have some vaccines that will change next year,,,
@ Sixpence Notthewiser
You are quite right, but there is a case in which it's strictly forbidden and it is when we have a pacemaker
@ Rick - Oh, she's given me massages but she's always afraid of hurting me. She prefers leaving it to the professionals.
@ upton - I'm contemplating asking one of them. At least i don't think he'd be offended by a bit of a boner and may even complete the needed massage.
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