The new interface is clunky. But, given that more and more youngsters are driven by images rather than words, the result is the icon-driven menus. Us old folk will be left in the dust if we don't try to keep up. And I'm not old enough for that to happen. Not yet.
But I'll be honest. If it wasn't for emails and comments with questions, I'd probably let this go.
"My best friend is straight and called me and said he needed to see me. We've never done anything sexual and it threw me for a loop that what he wanted was for me to suck his dick. He claimed he if he had to keep jerking off he was going nuts. I let him talk me into it. He did nothing but lay there while I blew him despite that my own dick got hard but he did nothing to help me out. I told him that was shitty. He said he just wouldn't know what to do because he's not even bi let alone gay. If he asks again what do I do?"
What do you do? What do you want to do? If you're a willing receptacle, he'll keep asking. If you want some type of reciprocation, you need to tell him that and stick to your guns.
"He said he just wouldn't know what to do..."?
Really? He's got a cock in his hand every time he masturbates but he says he wouldn't know what to do? Uh, sorry, I don't buy that excuse. Neither should you.
If he comes over and asks again, the results are up to you. Put his hand on your cock and give it to him straight (no pun intended). He can at least lend a hand or he can go back to jacking off.
Make it his choice.
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If you really like sucking cock, and think of yourself as a professional cocksucker and don't mind, go for it, thats one thing, but if you want to be sucked and he never gives in...the door is thata way>>>>>>>>
I only played on the new interface about a few weeks ago and reverted back. It did seem clunky. If I don't like it...Ill blow the pop joint. Id hate to since I'm going on 14 years!!!!! But I will hang it up. I don't have patience one of my downfalls I'm afraid.
I agree. Seems to me that straight friend is using him.
I've been a "servicer" a couple of times for so-called "straight" men. While it was fun in the beginning, it became rude when they would just show up, not showered, and take for f*cking ever to cum. Those encounters were short lived.
MANY years ago, I had this gorgeous, blonde muscle boy with an enormous, pendulous cock (we worked out and occasionally showered together at a gym) that I would have been happy to just let him lay back and let me service him all night. It never happened except in my nightly fantasies.
When I lived in Mamaroneck NY for a couple months, I joined a JO club, and my first hook-up was with a guy who wanted to beat off to porn, but no touching, no helping, no staring at anything except the bi porn he brought over. We did not connect again after that.
I have known "Straight" guys who just wanted a blow or hand job.
If the writer is willing to provide the service, then do it. Enjoy the cock and all that it can offer - there will come a day when that may not be so available.
I do think that the pun was intended, but your advice is wise, as nearly always.
I'm always amazed when someone doesn't know how to fix this kind of problem on his own, but it looks like it' happens.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings chéris. Have a great weekend.
Wow. What some suckers feel the need to complain about! Dear... this is an ideal situation in the minds of most cocksuckers. What I wouldn't do to have a great dick to work on. Who cares if he doesn't want to touch your cock. Suck it up, buttercup.
First, I would tell him that touching a dick does not make a person gay. Doctors and nurses touch dicks all the time. The first time may feel a little weird but he just has to think about the blow job he is getting. Tell him to do the same thing he does to himself to get off.
Second, you will never tell anyone what happens or you could blackmail him and say you will tell everyone you sucked his dick, although that would be pretty low.
Third, if he still does not participate he should at least take you out for drinks or dinner.
The straight friend's behavior was insulting. The assumption that because you are gay you have no scruples. It's the same old stereotype that we've been fighting for ages: because you are a gay man you must be attracted to and want sex with every man. Isn't this the excuse given for wanting to ban us from sports, the military, etc. - we want to jump every guy?
"I let him talk me into it." - sounds like something you weren't comfortable doing and yet he pressured you into it rather than respecting your initial decision to answer 'no'.
I knew a guy that was raped and during the act the perpetrator kept saying things like, "come on you're gay so I know you like it".
I don't see a whole lot of difference in the mentality of the perp and the friend. It was all about getting off at the expense of another.
A true friend wouldn't take advantage of your sexual preference.
Tell him he knows what to do. Also that while he can stop wherever he wants, he has to reciprocate somehow if he wants this to continue.
Unless there is some joy for both, then I would tell the straight friend to keep jacking by himself. I am OK with not being serviced if I go into that knowing that. Sometimes it can be fun just to help a buddy out like that. But I won't be used and I hope that your friend won't be used either.
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