"For reasons to numerous to list I had to take in my younger brother. Living in a one bedroom has made it damn near impossible for me to get any me-time at all. Between the insistent boners on a daily basis and a raging hard-on every morning I have no way to relieve them. I hate jerking off in the shower which I've done a few times in desperation but my nuts are killing me and I really need to get in a nice long session. Any suggestions? - D"
Well, D, I feel for you. And I think many guys can relate to the pain in your balls. But, here's the thing: Your younger brother is most likely dealing with that same problem, don't you think?
Neither of you should be suffering in silence. You're the older sibling. It's also your home and you shouldn't allow yourself to be held hostage in the masturbation department. It should fall to you to talk and talk openly. You're horny. He's horny. Your balls ache. His balls ache.
He's your brother. If you can't admit to him that you jack off, who can you admit it to? What's wrong with telling him, "My nuts feel like they're going to explode."
Come on! Sit down together and discuss a solution.
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Oh well.
I think they need to decide when they're going to have 'ME time'. They're two adult males. Let each one have an afternoon/few hours to himself while the other goes grocery shopping or running or bird watching.
They need to talk about it. It's just sex.
XOXO
He doesn't say how old his younger brother is. That would make a difference in how he talks to his brother.
For now, they are tied: zero all over the place.
If they make the effort to get a score of one everywhere, they will still be tied.
Your reader is the older sibling, it's up to him to take the first step.
And the second if necessary.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
how old is his younger brother?
He does not say how old his brotheris. Maybe he is not of puberty age yet, I would still sit him down and tell him that big brother needs some time alone and then ask him to play video games or watch tv. Of he is of jacking age, maybe he needs time of his own also. Set up some rules either way.
Hmmm. Well, hopefully they are loving brothers and not the kind that hate each other.
Hell....the shower is one of my favorite places to jack off.
Great opportunity for the 2 brothers to bond over a shared issue and its resolution.
It continues to amaze me how men tend to forget we likely share common issues, are reluctant to seek or offer assistance with resolution and prefer to tough it out in isolation, resulting in re-inventing the wheel each time or missing opportunities that sharing provides. I think it stems from not wanting to be seen as weak and a fear of a hostile reaction. The thing is, no man is an island unto themselves and we should reflect on our fellow men experiencing similar issues to ourselves and how we would feel if we experienced those things.
Fundamentally, men are more similar than they are different as we share the same underlying biology.
I'm a great one to talk though, as I have experienced my share of being unwilling to openly share with other men, through fear of a hostile reaction, appearing weak or thinking there was something wrong with me because my Father always expected me to sort things out for myself which, unlike my perception of him, I was frequently unable to do and felt like a failure for so long.
A civilisation only progresses when it passes on its knowledge, experience and wisdom to the next generation for them to build upon, instead of wasting time and effort re-inventing the wheel each generation.
Oh, boy! A problem my over-pornographed mind just drools over!
D-- One bedroom, you said. Where, pray tell, does little brother sleep? My first thought was the two of you sharing the single bed. Reality means he's probably on the couch.
What were things like around home while you were growing up? Share a bedroom? Separate rooms?
Uh-- just what is the age separation between you?
You and little bro never saw each other choking the chicken? Pounding the meat? Greasing your palm?
*sigh* As the boss mentioned, you need to loosen up, tell little bro that your "nuts feel like they're going to explode!"
Maybe you can renew a childhood friendship with your brother. Maybe share a moment and watch a fancy movie. Both of you whip it out and release the, uh, tension together. Maybe give each other a hand? Bring new meaning to Brotherly Love!
If that's too bold, maybe let him 'catch' you in the act... or maybe he's hoping you'll catch him in the act!
Start wearing less clothing, and hope he strips down, too. And you can take care of those bulging baskets together.
That's enough, I guess. Don't be a stranger in your own house! And let us know how things work out!
--PaulMmn
No question.
Talk about it.
Maybe he's afraid of the label..."gay."
Even you jerk off together, swallow etc., that doesn't mean you're gay, in my book.
Being gay means you're attracted to, and fulfilled by being with men in a relationship. When you're near a dude and your body shutters, longs to be next to him...then you're gay. But homosex does not mean you're gay. imo.
The most male thing on the planet is to ejaculate, we all do it, we HAVE to do it, it's a MAJOR biological function, but many in conservative families don't want to accept the fact that we need to get it off.
Brothers, of all people, should be comfortable with it, SHOULD have been jerking off together when they were younger.
It's natural...at least it was in my bedroom with all three boys. We jerked each other off, sucked each other, swallowed, had water works fun in the bathtub, came on each other.
It just seems so natural to me.... and I was raised in a conservative Mormon home. (Sure the church didn't agree, but fuck that, they were wrong and every boy knew it.) Even had circle jerks on scout trips.
Everyone needs to be open and honest about being human and what we naturally need. I hope all is going well with you and yours, my Dear Friend. Wishing a bonerific day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
Dude...Me and my brother do it together all the time. You have nothing to be afraid of. Really. Me and r have been stroking dick together for years now. - R
I really believe some brothers (or at least bros) do it together. 🤷♂️
Unusual for me but, I think some of them don't have a way to do it privately. 😏
Pretty much like in this situation. 👌🏻
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