Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Tell Me What You Think

Speaking of size...it does matter. No, really. For a variety of reasons - not just because we want to be bigger; not because our partners want a bigger cock to play with. No.

As I mentioned a couple weeks ago, a long-term relationship in my past complained I was banging into her cervix. I was too big for her 
and we had to make adjustments.



"It's not the size of the tool, it's how you use it" is true in many cases. Relationship expert Tracey Cox wrote a great article for the
on how you can have great sex no matter the size of your cock. It's all in how you use it, what positions you employ to enhance the experience for both you and your partner.




But, I have to agree with Jean...read the comments at the end. Some are insightful, but some are a real hoot. 

Then tell me what you think about cock size.


mistress maddie said...

Well as a gay man , most guys I know prefer 6 or 7". It seems to be the perfect size to hit the right spots, with no worries. I myself really don't have a preference, but it seems a lot of guy I end up having sex with have been hung, purely by coincidence. I love the look of a guy with a hefty cock hanging, but it is really how you use it. And If a guy is going to do anal on me, I have to be relaxed and by no means does my partner stick it all in.

btw- your opening picture is one of my favorites.

Patrick said...

I guess I was about "average", but I never had any complaints. In fact I often had the comment, "Nice cock"!

A French Patrick said...

"It's not the size of the tool, it's how you use it" It is particularly true as regards those who do not use it. Rightly or wrongly, I think that we do not ask ourselves too much the question to know if this tool is too short or too long as long as we use it only for wanking. It seems to me that that proves well that the problem is above all what we believe that we read or imagine that there is in the look or in the spirit of others.
Love, hugs and bisous, my darling Jean and Pat.

Postscript: I learnt a thing which makes sense when you think about it. The masturbation and the digestion cause both an overactivity of the heart. He is therefore preferable for the heart, as far as possible, not to let these two activities overlap one with the other. And these activities themselves can only be improved by doing so.

SickoRicko said...

Yes, too big can be a problem.

AOM said...

My cock is average sized and if magically I could get an extra inch, I'd take it but no - it doesn't matter - unless it is too big - I much prefer average sizes to play with. I hope you are well and having fun, bro. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

T said...

A simple 'dick rule' to follow; if it fits within the length of your hand you can do everything with it. Any bigger and its got limited use.

Fullmoonma said...

I think I've said this before here...

I've got a bigger and thicker cock than average - something like 85th percentile. I didn't know this until I was in my 20's and didn't appreciate it until I came out as a gay man and starting playing with others - because most gay men like playing with big cocks! I particularly like massaging big ones myself. I also like to get fucked, and for that average size is ideal. I have some friends with 40th percentile cocks - a little less than 6" long and 4" around - and they all feel underhung and are sensitive about their cock size. However, getting fucked by them is really awesome for me because I can be comfortable for long enough to get thoroughly fucked into a state of total submission. I also suspect small cocks are more sensitive - the same quantity of nerve receptors spread over half the territory might explain that. They are often stiffer - huge cocks are notoriously hard to keep full and stiff. So it's a complicated answer. I'm glad I have a large cock - it continues to attract attention to an otherwise unexceptional body. I liked being able to satisfy the minority of gay man who are searching for the biggest cock to get inside them - only once has it been insufficient for that task. But it's meant that satisfying blow jobs are very rare and that sometimes I've been unable to fuck guys whose heads wanted it but butt holes didn't. And when I'm masturbating my hands don't quite get all the way around, but I seem to make out OK.

Fullmoonma said...


Showing it off across the room
Fucking a size queen
Mutual masturbation
Giving a massage
Solo masturbation
Naked bike riding
Extended anal intercourse
Receiving blow job