Monday, July 31, 2017

Straight Men Do, Too

Two things. First an update.

"I got your second response and took the advice. I called my sister and got a very hearty "Please!" when I suggested a talk with her son. "Jesus Christ, maybe he'll calm down a bit if he knows he's got permission to jerk off." So, the talk went well. He understood my misgivings about dropping trou and showing him, as my wife suggested. Judging by the amount of paper towels in the waste basket, he thoroughtly enjoyed the clips you suggested. The questions after were straight-forward and easy to answer. I think he's actually relieved to find out he's just a normal horny teen."


Well, so there ya go. It's easier than we all fear when we face The Talk. The next email was a bit onerous at first.

"Why do gay dudes love taking it up  the ass so much?"

Well, pardner, it ain't just gay men who enjoy that. You've heard about the women's G-Spot? Well, for men, there's this thing called the Prostate. Manipulating and stimulating it increases the hardness of a boner, and it feels really good.
Look up "pegging" and you'll discover that straight men "love taking it up the ass," too. 

External pressure, or pushing a finger in...
And, though not too many will openly admit to it, but leave them alone in a room with their wife's or girlfriend's vibrator....
There's so much more to sexual pleasure than your cock. 

10 comments:

mistress maddie said...

I hope your weekend was a enjoyable one my friend. So glad the guy called his sister. Everything worked out and now he can have a life long journey of loving his cock.

I can't tell you how many times the first gif happens to me. Boy that's burns.

Xersex said...

because everyone is made in a dfifferent way. Ex. my nipples are not erogenous, but someone can get his orgasm only with manipulation of his nipples! The same with ass. I'm 100% gay but I can't enjoy to be fucked, so I'm only top. Probably becvause my asshole is noty such sensitive! But guys, I feel 150% male and 150% gay!

Patrick said...

OH! WOW! WHY? Because it is just so great! The first few times were not that wonderful, as the guy just wanted to get his nuts off! But when it was part of a "session" with one or more guys, who knew what they wanted and what I wanted, then it became something wonderful. It's not being "passive", it's something wonderful when it's done properly.

A French Patrick said...

"To wank or not to wank, that is not the question", this is what Hamlet would have monologed if William Shakespeare had not forced his hand by imposing to him a slight modification. According to well-informed sources, the Prince suggested a compromise by proposing "To be wanking or not to be wanking, that is not the question." but Shakespeare refused. And you know why? Uunder the pretext that it was not an alexandrine!!! And that's why it has been necessary to wait so many centuries before addressing the real problem. So bad! So much waste of time! By respecting the hierarchy, a prince should not obey a playwrighter.
As for me, my darlings Jean and Pat, I obey nobody by wishing you a wondrous day with lots of bisous.

Fullmoonma said...

I took workshops from Chester Mainard, an amazingly gifted man who taught at the Body Electric School for many years. He devoted his life to teaching and giving butt massage. He used to say that about 20% of men (gay and straight) were members of the ass tribe - deriving great satisfaction from anal stimulation of many kinds. I'm one of these men, although I have to say that prostate massage doesn't do much for me. Chester explained that most of the pleasure sensors are external or in the sphincters. I believe that anal intercourse is hard wired for pleasure and to help young men bond together when they are all jazzed up with testosterone. That's what I feel when I've been thoroughly fucked, or when I've received long external anal massage - penetration isn't necessary!

AOM said...

A happy ending ending with so many happy endings! : ) Good to hear. I hope you and yours are doing well, bro. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Anonymous said...

Actually, anal's really only been a thing since the rise of porno movies. Before that, oral and circle jerking were the thing. And even straight guys dabbled, albeit usually not as suckers but as suckers. Anal sex was the favorite speculation of homophobic academics, though.

I'm just imagining a near future where my lack of interest in anal is seen as "sexually immature" by some neo-neo-Freudian. You know, the way clitoral orgasms were.

SickoRicko said...

I worked with a guy who liked his wife to peg him.

whkattk said...

@ Anon - We shall hope that day never comes. Because we are all different - some enjoy anal, some don't. This is why some men only top, and some gay men who don't engage in anal at all.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, like I said, people don't understand that gay sex is cyclic. What's popular today might be passé in ten years, just because we're not dealing with a teleological "natural use", in St Paul's words.

In my own experience, growing up, a desire to be penetrated marked one as somewhat less than manly. Oral was spoken about in hushed tones, something that, when we were in our teens, we MIGHT go to an openly gay dude for, but we wouldn't reciprocate. And even then because our girlfriends weren't giving us any. (Conservative culture, understand. Girls are taught to be chaste, and boys...are taught to respect that, but in practice, they just find options other than girls.) Nonpenetrative activities between males, even straight males, such as masturbating together, were fairly common.

As an adult, arousal leads to my sphincter shutting tight, and my penis is...unusually large. So, I'm less certain about anal. Hell, my experiences with women involve months of her on top before I get a feel for how deep to go. (Note to size queens: You really do NOT want a foot-long 🍆 in your 🍑.)

It just always struck me that the emphasis on anal as some sort of supreme sex act was to deny the role of the frenulum.