Like with any other task accomplished with another person, as Jean pointed out, communication is important. Being able to open up verbally to a partner is key to mutual pleasure and ultimate satisfaction.
If you have difficulty in communicating, there are ways to learn. I know I've mentioned this before, and fullmoonma left several comments on yesterday's post about this: Body Electric seminars are designed to do just that; help you express what feels good, what you want to experience in the moment; to ask a partner for what you'd like them to do.
Tantric Massage is another place to learn the skill of sexual communication. Tantric Massuers are trained to help you learn to express what you're feeling and learn control over your body.
The more control you command over your response, the longer you can make a singular sexual romp last. Whether that's alone or with a partner.
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thanks for your suggestions
Great post, bro. Totally agree that communication is key. The better the communication, the better the whole experience for all involved. I wish you a bonerific beautiful day, my Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
Great post as always! Full of great images and information. Trust the cooler weather is not too much of an issue healthwise!
Not much is going on but I just wanted to communicate you (even if it's not quite a sexual communication) that I send you lots of bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat, by wishing you a wondrous day.
Communication is important, especially your own needs. At times you can be so quick to make your partner comfortable that you forget to learn to how to satisfy yourself.
Good question, is my satisfaction my job, his, or ours?
Hugs and bisous dear Pat and Frech Patrick.
@ Jean - responsibility for sexual satisfaction is always our own. A lot of trouble in relationships is rooted in the sex. Men feel pressure to produce - it's something pounded into their brains by magazines, men's and women's. When we cease placing that responsibility onto a partner the satisfaction in sex and the relationship itself improve.
Hot, hot post!
OK so how do I introduce this to my buddys when we get totgether to jack off?
Tantric massage is an awesome way to really get in tune to your body and your partner's body.
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