From the Mail Bag:
"My dick was really hard when I woke up this morning. I'm thrusting into the mattress when I hear my son ask what I'm doing. I panicked and told him I was doing push-ups. I heard him make some sound and he left. Cursing my wife, I rolled out of bed and stuffed my hardon into lounge pants and went out to the kitchen to face the day and my son. He's 12. Do you think he's old enough for the reality of his old man jerking off? Had I not been interrupted I most certainly would've had myself one hell of a session."
Push-ups? Really? Do you think he actually believed that bullshit? Did you panic, or were you embarrassed? If he snorted as he left, yes, he's old enough to know about jacking off.
By this age, he's already begun to recognize when his cock is hard, that it feels good when it is, that it feels really good to touch it, and it feels really, really good play with it. Kids are smarter than we give them credit for being. And he knew exactly what you were doing. He was being coy.
And, you, my friend, missed an opportunity.
If there's one thing I know it's that kids hate being lied to by their parents. Now that he's caught you in the lie, he's going to purposely try to catch you in the act. I'd suggest you get to his cock-stroking education before he does.
Give him baby oil (or something) for lube and some old hand towels for cleaning up along with instructions on where to put them if he doesn't want his mom to see them. Tell him to enjoy himself and close the door on your way out. Then go and resume your session.
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Yes, indeed, the time is ripe for dad to have a man-to-man discussion with his soon-to-be teenager son!
This is a great clip from the television series 'Weeds' : Uncle Andy talks to Shane about how to pleasure himself
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJkEwbVdcQY
Great advice and great post!
I agree with you. Kids know things early these days....and I know I started jacking off at 11 or 12, as I'm sure he is already.
i sent a video clip from 'Weeds' but i noticed the picture is a bit fuzzy on that one. This is a clearer video, same clip:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-eWVy4UysNo
Good advice! I've advised buddies of mine who have sons. Make it all so natural for a thing that is so natural. Really helps keep us healthy. I hope all is going well for your, bro. I wish you a humpin' great day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
love youir wisdom!
And what do you think about to Resume Your Season, instead of your session. Tomorrow (in two hours for me) is the first day of Spring which we waited for since so long.
I imagine and I hope you will be able to make the most of it.
Hugs and bisous, my darling Jean and Pat.
Obviously kids are maturing faster and know more than I did at 12 if you think he is already knows what was going on. When I got older I would have remembered this incident and known that I had been lied to, but not at 12.
My wife and I only had 2 girls.....sorry to say I never had a son....and that time has now passed for us. But I am completely positive the attitude in which I was brought up, with my Dad giving me one birds & bees talk (and that was it), is now ancient history and good riddance. Or, at least one can hope.
I wish my dad had been comfortable enough to talk to me about masturbation and how all boys do it and why boys need to do it. And, what's appropriate and what isn't. I wish he would have told me how he dealt with these things when he was my age. And, wish he had told me that he still rubs one out from time to time because it feels so great.
Learning to become a man isn't the easiest thing in the world. Your son should be given correct information and not have him guess or get some stupid wrong ideas from his pals.
I say talk to your 12 year old and answer his questions as honestly as possible. Maybe, buy him some white tube socks to let it fly in so he can toss them into the laundry with little suspicion...and don't forget the lube.
One more thing, be SURE you tell your wife that your son is now becoming a man and to not embarrass him should she walk in on him or find something questionable. That can really screw up a young guy if Mom goes haywire on him or laughs at him. He won't find the situation one bit funny and may internalize it for the rest of his life.
Lastly, let him know he can come and ask questions again, in another private talk, with you anytime he wants. He's trying to figure life out and you should be there to help him figure out those boy things. Seems like he's probably ready to listen....or is at least interested enough to ask, which means it's time for Papa to take the lead here and open the dialogue on the joys and responsibilities of manhood.
Why is a kid walking into their bedroom without knocking? Don’t they have any guidelines for privacy, a lock on the door? (A 12 yr old should know better. ) That would be my first teachable moment.
Parents deserve privacy, and aren”t under any obligation to provide “teachable moments” if kids ignore their privacy and simply walk in.
Hugs and bisous.
I’m surprised that you didn’t mention that humping the mattress can be dangerous—at least I have heard that a guy can break muscles in his penis that way. However, I do like that you encourage him to talk with his son about masturbation. My dad never did. But here is a story that might be an encouragement and give him some ideas. https://www.solotouch.com/story/thanks-dad-38107
@ Anon March 20 - Yes, humping the mattress can be a bit dangerous is one isn't careful. The boner should be perfectly sandwiched between abs and mattress, and don't raise the hips too high!
@ Anon- March 19 - Excellent advice from top to bottom. Dad needs to be perfectly honest with his wife about their son's moving into adulthood. If she doesn't know about teenage guys, it's now time for her to learn ***before*** she stumbles onto something, or says something which will embarrass the kid.
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