Happy Winter Solstice.
Bringing us one day closer to Summer.
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"My wife and I live in a lovely 2-bed/2-bath home we designed. Our daughter and grandson arrived yesterday to stay with us through the holidays and we are bunking appropriately. I have slept nude since I was about my grandson's age (mid-teens). My wife said I needed to wear shorts to bed. When my grandson came in for bed he told me he sleeps naked and hoped I wouldn't mind. We decided he was mature enough handle it. Is there anything wrong in this?"
Let's see.... You've always slept in the nude. Your grandson sleeps in the nude. If you are both comfortable with it, I can't see anything wrong with your decision. He's obviously not embarrassed - and Bravo! for that. I assume that neither one of you are worried about nighttime boners or morning wood, either. Bravo! again.
Two related, or unrelated for that matter, males should be able to sleep naked in the same bed without anyone jumping to the assumption that something untoward is happening.
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His Grandson is mid-teens and OK with this, what else matters? I'm impressed with a young man this age who is this comfy with his body and not prudish. He is far ahead of his years. Why would anyone even have to know? If the door is shut and they aren't running around naked, who should care? Love the maturity of this kid!
Ok, so it's a very body-positive household receiving people who are obviously body-positive. Everybody knows about how the hosts live. They have no problem with it and even emulate them. So what was the question?
XOXO
I think the root of the problem is so many still see nudity as sex. Nudity and being sexual are two different things to me. They can't separate them. I have been naked around friends, and nothing sexual ever happened...I dare say we would have even been grossed out thinking sexual thoughts of each other.
Seems okay to me.
I can't see any problem, honestly
The fact that the proposal comes from his grandson seems important to me, it is much better than if he had proposed it to his grandson.
In these conditions, "We don't have a problem with it, why should you?" seems to me a good answer.
Happy Winter Solstice to you too. Now the days to be endured with Trump are both shorter and less numerous.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Maybe the grandmother brought it up incase the grandson would have an issue over it? As neither have an issue with being naked there is no problem.
When I was that age and staying over at grandparents for holidays grandfather and I had no problems with nudity. He was even the first to say to me never be embarrassed of your dick even if it gets hard; everyone's dick does the same. Had a time when we were both in the showers after swimming one morning and up it went. He said not to worry they have a mind of their own at that age.
I’m with French Patrick, the proposal comes from his grandson. Nothing to see here, hugs and Bisous.
I can't wait for summer. Yes. Longest day of the year? Is that right? Or shortest? Shortest. Come on summer. Thanks for the pics of the dudes outside in the snow. Makes winter seem almost harmless. 3 months to go.
We really need to get over this psychotic fear of seeing a naked body. I hope all is well with you, my Dear Friend. Wishing you a Naked Day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
I'm a little confused: does "bunking appropriately" mean the daughter sleeps with her Mother and the grandson sleeps with the Grandpa? If this is so, then I see nothing wrong with 2 males being naked together in bed. It might even be an opportunity for the lad to ask about anything a male should know, although he may be embarassed to start a conversation.
Grandpa needs to be prepared for this possibility and to make it easier for the grandson to open up if he wants. Because of the age difference and dynamics, one needs to be careful not to initiate anything sexual because it is illegal.
If there isn't another mature male role model in the lads life he can turn to, this may be an important experience for him.
Mistress Maddie has hit the nail on the head. It may be in the back of Grandpa's mind that this is inappropriate...he is two generations prior to his grandson. The young man is secure in his own skin and sees no reason to change. Grandpa should just go with the flow and leave the shorts in the drawer.
this is normal for us. Dad had us sleeping naked for as along as we can remember so this shouldnt be a problem for anyone. his grampa should be proud of him. - 2 Rs
All I can say is... 😏
That's a killer view in that 1st shot! 🍑
I always saw "bunking appropriately" as "each couple alone together, everyone else divided by sex"
@ Anon - 1/2 - They didn't have much other choice but to divide up by sex, unless the grandson slept on the couch. I'm pleased that didn't need to happen.
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