Wednesday, June 16, 2021

An Invitation to Bate

 

"Over the weekend I logged onto Bateworld for some cambate. It's always nice when you get to see faces and I usually don't hide mine. I was surprised to recognize a friend and quickly adjusted my camera angle because I didn't want him to know I watched him jerking off. But the thing is I'd love to buddy bate with him. Do you think it would be okay to tell him I was online and saw him and invite him for some bate?"



Of course it would be okay. He obviously didn't worry about being recognized. He may welcome it. He may jump at the chance. 







But you have to be prepared if he says he prefers camming to jacking off with someone in person. You can express disappointment but that's as far as it should go. It would have to be along the lines of, "Oh, okay. I get it, no problem."

And, if he does demur, the next time you see him or talk to him, make no mention of it unless he brings up the subject.

12 comments:

SickoRicko said...

You always have such good advice.

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

I think your advice is on point.
The friend obviously does not care who sees him, so yeah. An invite would be nice. But also, the friend could be strictly into camming, so...

XOXO

Your French Patrick said...

If your reader's friend appears on the Internet with the purpose of not being seen, he is the one who has not understood everything.
Or else he must assume the consequences.

Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

Anonymous said...

Another option is to not hide your face next time.

JeanWM said...

Always good advice. Hugs and bisous.

uptonking said...

Great advice, all around. I 100% agree with you! Good job. Kizzes.

Mistress Maddie said...

All one can do is ask. The worst answer would be no.

But cam bating is hot.

Hot guys said...

This buddies experimentin' kinda situation happens more often than we think! 🤷‍♂️

Seriously... People just don't talk about it, they keep it to themselves. 😉

Anyways, the bad boy in the first 2 photos is a fine manly stud! 👍🏻

Paul said...

Of course anyone who bates online is going to be less inhibited than secret baters. But as with everything and with everyone respect the other person always, ask respectfully, and respond respectfully. Unless he says “what are we waiting for?”, then go for it!

whkattk said...

@ Rick - Thanks!

whkattk said...

@ Anon - You're right, not hiding would've been a good option. It would've saved a lot of time.

Xersex said...

why not?