Friday, April 7, 2023

Two Different

 

Happy Friday. A comment the other day:

"If the brain is our largest sex organ then why can't we make a boner go away when we don't want our dick to be hard? I got the biggest one making a presentation yesterday and its not like I could adjust right there in front of everyone though I might as well have because more than a few coworkers noticed. One even mouthed Bro You have a boner."


You've heard the saying, "It's got a mind of its own"? It's the truth. But don't confuse the spontaneous boner with sexual arousal. Those are two different animals, so to speak. One --- the one you got while making your presentation --- is a direct result from the refreshing of blood oxygen to the Corpora Cavernosa / Corpus Spongiosum. Slight stimulation, like the material of your briefs rubbing against your cock, can make you get harder. If you click on the tag BOE at the bottom of this post, you'll find more on the subject.

The sexual --- the "on demand" boner --- is a result of stimulus signals being sent to and from your brain helping to keep you hard. If you've ever started going soft during any sexual activity and used any additional stimuli to boost the boner, you've experienced the brain power over an erection.







Yet, sadly or thankfully, depending upon the immediate circumstance, we don't seem to be able to just will away wood.



The BOE will usually resolve itself. The on demand one resolves with orgasm or ejaculation. Though, some BOEs can require the same action if the outside stimulation continues to keep it hard.



My final thought is don't fret over the episode. The more you act as if it was normal (and a BOE
is normal), the sooner the folks in the office might dismiss it.





Faithful Reader Hooter tells me it's a special day in their household.

Happy Birthday to Maximus!




19 comments:

SickoRicko said...

I'm well passed the age where that happens. If only...

Hooter from Owls Rest said...

We have been celebrating in our Birthday suits today. Had a leisurely brunch. Will not put on clothes until we leave for dinner at the restaurant around 4:00. Maximus thanks you for the surprise birthday wishes.

whkattk said...

@ Rick - Sad, ain't it? It's one the cruelest things to happen to a guy.

whkattk said...

@ Hooter & Maximus - The best way to celebrate a birthday!

Mistress Maddie said...

I never worried about the wanted or The Unwanted boners... because you just know someone's going to enjoy that view!

Have a good Easter weekend all!

Big Dude said...

I got one one time on a bus between Baltimore and DC, and the guy sitting next to me got one at the same time. We both laughed, and it was good to be able to adjust without embarrassment. Nothing sexual happened, by the way. Just males being male.

Anon said...

Corpora cavernosa (plural, singular corpus cavernosum) and corpus spongiosum.

Cale said...

@ Big Dude - Bus boners. Who doesn’t remember those? And the awkward walks down the aisle to the door?

whkattk said...

@ Anon - Thank you. I knew I was spelling it wrong. TBH, I was too lazy at the time to look it up.

whkattk said...

@ Big Dude - How nice to be able to let it go as the normal thing it is.

paulmmn said...

I've always liked Bulge536-- looks like he'd be fun to get to know!
--PaulMmn

JeanWM said...

Hey I think Mother Nature is making sure the population is constantly being refreshed whether we want it to or not. Got a boner, what could we do now.... and the population goes up. Happy Easter, Hugs and Bisous.

Anonymous said...

One day a man getting a boner at a presentation will deliberately make light of it as the natural and relatively inconsequential thing it is, the video will go viral and men everywhere will start to be able to relax.

"Thank you to that member of the audience who pointed out my boner, as though it wasn't obvious to everyone. We men have to deal with spontaneous erections much of the time, if we are lucky but they don't necessarily indicate sexual arousal as they have a mind of their own, sorry ladies and gents, I don't discriminate. In this situation though, I'm particularly interested in the topic of the presentation material: as you can see it gives me a hardon. So please, if you can, focus on the material instead of my impressive response to it."

whkattk said...

@ Anon - That would be a very fun video to make.

Erick said...

What happened to the link to BOE?

Anonymous said...

Well, every boner is enjoyable. I often wonder what would happen if we had not been educated from childhood on, that there is something fishy about boners/our cocks in general. It would be far more enjoyable and relaxed, if every man and woman can enjoy the genitals without shame.

whkattk said...

@ Erick - Click on the label, it should reopen the same post, BUT... at the top is a bar that reads "Showing posts with label "BOE." That should bring them all up.... If it's not working, it's a Blogger glitch.

whkattk said...

@ Erick - The easiest way is to enter the label of posts you're looking for in the Search at the top left of the blog, hit enter and they should all appear.

Xersex said...

hope everyone had a good Easter.