"My husband loves any kind of porn and jerks off pretty much every day. He mostly surfs the web and visits your blog but he's got dvds too and most all is guys. I don't mind any of it because as he says it gets him the relief he needs everyday though on weekends he'll call out "hey babe, come in here, I got something for you." but what's the deal with needing porn to do it?"
I've been asked this question before by plenty of women. The simple answer is that men are visual creatures.
Why all guys? You may be surprised to find that many a straight dude loves Male-Male porn. The camera lens spends a good amount of time on the cock(s) and will heavily focus on the money shot. It's total transference in that the images become fantasy-like as men mentally place themselves into the scene.
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I can't lie I do like watching movies occasionally, but I never really relied on them too much. I have a pretty good Vivid mindscape I can usually just get off very easily. But some days you bloggers certainly help!
Enjoy guy on guy intergenerational.
True, true, and true.
Pat, you nailed it from the start by stating that we men are visual creatures, when women are known to mostly be more responsive to auditive stimuli along with long caresses, etc
Add to that the fact that seeing/watching male-to-male porn can reassure a heterosexual, kind of as if he was playing around with his mates in the gym's showers or else, well you get the picture: a simple moment for comforting themselves, probably followed by a few of them sharing a beer at the local Pub or having pizza watching whatever soccer or baseball game that's on TV.
Ms, please do not get me wrong when I say this - and I think you won't for you are already open-minded: if your husband/companion feels fine about whatever activities yourself share with your own friends, just consider he's doing the same with his. No harm done.
(short answer: as long as he calls out "hey babe, come in here, I got something for you", you needn't worry about anything)
I like most porn. I do need to find the men attractive, though. And gay. I don't really go for the straight guy serviced thing. I like my gay porn GAY. I used to love erotica, though. Oh, yes. One handed reading.
But I get what you say about the guy just projecting. Don't we all do that when watching porn??
XOXO
There's a reason romance novels are the number one seller for women. And the depictions of sex can be as graphic as any porn. No, these aren't "erotic novels", they are the very ones making it to Netflix, Starz, like the Outlander and Bridgerton Series. But the bottom line is, they are romances. Hugs and bisous.
Guy on guy, not gay!
I don't think women understand the importance of sexual expression for men, because they obtain satisfaction from things like cuddling and emotional connection as well as sex (even multiple orgasms), whereas for men its mostly from sex and only a single orgasm.
I think sexual orientation is fundamentally about procreation, but when its just for recreational sex, I think its a guideline only and many men are able to cross the line if they can't get their regular fix and jettison entrenched homophobia.
There's a direct connection between eyes and cock - I think it's called the brain - so that a picture, like your #10 today - gets my cock growing at my desk without any need to think and kicks off my morning bate session! Thanks!
@ Six - We do. We most certainly do. XOXO
@ Jean - True. Women are more aroused by the romance angle. The romance novels can be filled with graphic sex scenes as long as there is romance attached. Hugs and bious.
I think men have a fascination with the penis that goes beyond their own. It's like they cannot gather enough information about it... they want to compare, they want to see... that's why they measure and steal looks in the gym. Maybe we get stuck in adolescence? Kizzes.
If the brain is our largest sex organ then why can't we make a boner go away when we don't want our dick to be hard? I got the biggest one making a presentation yesterday and its not like I could adjust right there in front of everyone though I might as well have because more than a few coworkers noticed. One even mouthed Bro You have a boner.
I love porn, also straight-etero. I am passionate about porn. The only porn that doesn't appeal to me is porn with only women.
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