Tuesday, February 6, 2024

Positve Body Image


 Good morning.





Happy Tuesday.

I received a series of photos in an email with the following message:

"I'd love to show my dick on your blog. I'd like to know what your readers think of it."

After years of promoting positive attitudes about body image, I couldn't think of any reason to deny the request.





So, let him know what you think.

31 comments:

Anonymous said...

Beautiful, very hot body and penis!

Sixpence Notthewiser said...

What do I think?
He's handsome and very sexy. More, please!

XOXO

Your French Patrick said...

Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a great day

Anonymous said...

Impressive length and girth. I trust he uses it wisely and well.

SickoRicko said...

He's quite alright!

Hot guys said...

So veiny 👀 Some people are crazy about that!!

Also, the laptop dude is handsome 😉

Anonymous said...

Beautiful large masculine phallus, sexual erotic!

Anonymous said...

Huge phallus, masculine beard! So beautiful!

Anonymous said...

Bel homme a un beau phallus. Un 'crocus cock', succulent, sucable et très désirable.
-Beau Mec à Deauville

Hooter from Owls Rest said...


The guy has every reason to be proud of the trophy hanging between his legs. We would love to display him in our living room, maybe spread on the coffee table. Thank you for sharing yourself. We would love a view from the back also.

Anonymous said...

We have an 8incher!

Anonymous said...

Very beautiful cock,love those big balls too,love to see it cumming

JiEL said...

You are a vey handsome young man an your dick is nice as I like uncut ones.
I like also your smooth body and great smile.

The only thing and that is personal, I'd like to see your face without a beard.

Big Dude said...

Magnificent cock! No wonder you want to show it off.

Anonymous said...

This guy knows he is handsome! What a beautiful veiny dick, beard and muscular body.

Anonymous said...

Meh.

JeanWM said...

Hmmmm. Young, healthy, well-endowed. But he already knows that, why does he need us to tell him the obvious?
And the most important of those three attributes, is staying healthy, mentally and physically. I wish him that most of all.
Hugs and bisous.

Anonymous said...

Whilst interesting to see, it doesn't exactly spread the message of body positivity when you give a young, trim, well hung guy the stage in the presence of those who can't compete. What are they to make of their own bodies?

HuntleyBiGuy said...

HuntleyBiGuy:
This man is fantastic! Very handsome and he has a great body. I’m sure he pleases all of the boys and girls.

usmcmike44 said...

Wonderful man with a large cock. Great smile too. I'm sure he's a lot of fun to be with.

whkattk said...

@ Huntley - It's good to see you here!

whkattk said...

@ Anon, February 6, 2024 at 11:20 PM - I would hope it says be proud of what you have, there's no reason for shame.

manrico said...

It's not just the dick, it's the whole package . . . so to speak.

Xersex said...

he's the same guy who asked me the same request on my blog here

Anonymous said...

@ whkattk - I find it disturbing that a young man who seems to have it all is insecure when the majority of the photos presented in this blog are for similar men who would have no reason for shame anyway.

Even the response to the blog is supportive of his attributes, rather than being no shame regardless of those attributes, and further enhances not body positivity, but positivity only over specific bodily characteristics.

It feels like there is double standards when it comes to shame: men being impressed by the specific characteristics of other men, yet ashamed of their own in comparison. Maybe it's an inherent dilemma for men, especially men attracted to other men: the encouragement to be competitive, yet the natural diversity of form that men can't do anything about, coupled with an intrinsic appreciation of "bigger is better" (I'm sure male deer have an appreciation of antler size that dissuades them from challenging those with a bigger set and creates a kind of shame).

I don't know, there is something disturbing going on here that I can't quite put into words: it's like the blog is saying one thing (ie no shame) but actually supporting no shame only if you match a particular chareacteristic.

whkattk said...

@ Anon, February 8, 2024 at 7:20 PM - Perhaps it's the average guy with the beer belly and love handles don't take selfies and share them. Is that due to shaming by society? Of course - just like large (obese) women are shamed by society - told they are ugly and undeserving of love.
Everyone looks toward and *looks **for** some figment of perfection as it registers with them. That's the tight body, the beautiful face. But moreover for youth.

Anonymous said...

@ whckattk - thanks for your comments, but I was hoping for more general discussion about this issue because I think it is important but difficult to address.

Just like large (obese) women are shamed by society - told they are ugly and undeserving of love. But that's just it: a majority find obesity ugly and therefore there would be a struggle to find love, it's a truth; however using that truth to bully or deliberately hurt someone or force them to change is the shameful aspect. It shouldn't be shameful to be obese, but there are uncomfortable consequences as a result of that truth. I think there are 3 different issues here: a) how we are at any point in time is not shameful because it is a reality that we came to this point for some reason, largely outside our control; b) there are consequences to being as we are because we can't control the discrimination of other people and their discrimination may impact us negatively; and c) we need to accept this reality and either work to change to be more attractive to other people, or accept this reality and explore alternative ways to achieve our needs in life other than beating our heads against a particular brick wall and unrealistically expecting it to change and give us a different outcome.

I use obesity as the example as it is easier to comprehend, but I think something similar happens with men over penis size: as much as we might want to believe that size doesn't matter, I think at some subconscious level it does and pretending it doesn't leads to much anguish because we feel the contradiction. We shouldn't feel shame over something that is a reality of life, but we do need to accept the consequences and find a way though it. Whilst penis size may be important at one level, it isn't everything and there are ways to ensure that it can be whatever effective size we want as well as the possibility of finding someone compatible for whom it isn't a factor anyway.

I think society keeps shying away from actually addressing this issue and causing confusion because some things are important and pretending they aren't doesn't help, but explaining how that still doesn't matter is the solution.

I don't know if this makes sense as it does in my own mind.

I find larger dicks thrilling to look at, although I don't understand why, yet I don't discriminate in person as a man is more than his genitalia size and anyway there are workarounds if size was a factor. However I am slightly below standard myself and struggle with shame because of my own reaction to myself in comparison, even though I can reason all the above, there is still an internal conflict.

whkattk said...

@ Anon, February 10, 2024 at 1:18AM - Well, of course size matters. It's a longstanding joke but there is always truth in humor. The obsession with size goes back to the beginning...when females would seek out the longest for better chances of procreation. Straight men look at other men's dicks for the same reason - sizing up the competition. Which one has the better chance as passing along the genes?
Of course, science has proven that even a below-average dick can penetrate far enough to impregnate. But it will take millenia for science to overcome the psychological belief. My goodness, look at what psychology is doing to science when it comes to all manner of things backsliding into thinking about vaccines, and the superiority / hierarchy of the races.

Anonymous said...

NICE!!!!!!

jobj69 said...

Cute lad with obvious attributes...on a personal note, I agree with another commenter regarding losing the beard. Why cover that sweet face? Another plus is the absence of tattoos...

Thanks again for your fantastically entertaining blog! xo-

Sean Kelly said...

Great smile and absolutely mouth watering dick.