Thursday, September 19, 2013

Break Free


Related to yesterday's post, too many of us allow ourselves to be held hostage in the sex department. It's the power especially straight guys allow the fairer sex to hold over them. The ladies know how horny we get and how often; they know how important getting the rocks off is to us. If we don't eagerly embrace our cocks with our hands, we allow them to lord it over us. "Break free!"


Those are the words of advice I gave to a first-timer before a meeting of the jack-off group I belonged to. It was still gathering time; guys still clothed and milling about with drinks and talking. He was straight and married, was fed up with the limited sex at home. He had heard about the group and was curious. But nervous as hell.



He stayed. He started off pretty timid. After things wound down, everyone was back to drinking and talking - naked now - and I asked about his experience. He said before things started he was convinced his dick wouldn't even get hard in front of a bunch of dudes. Well, his cock surprised him. He popped bone before everyone had even finished stripping and settling in.

He said the thing that he enjoyed the most was the mood in the room:  there was no pressure, no sense that anyone was needy or clingy, or wanting something from him. Nothing to indicate it was anything more than a group of guys just having a good time.


And, this was the real biggie for him - - - How good it felt to have his cock stroked by someone who wanted to do it. The other thing that took him unaware was how much he liked the feel of another dude's dick in his hand, how nice it was being able to know precisely the sensations he induced.


For the first time in years, he'd enjoyed playing with his cock. He loved the casualness of it, the freedom of being naked and hard. He learned a few new stroke techniques. The men in that room taught him he could jack off and cum with abandon and not be ashamed to express it.



He would be back - often.


Your French Patrick said...

A fascinating story, as usual.
Maybe an exception?
But even then, we say that the exception proves the rule, isn't it?
"everyone was back to drinking and talking": the story does not say whether the most compelling was the alcohol or discussion.
Have a great day, my dear friend, with lots of bisous.

Anonymous said...

can't wait for the weekend

Upton King said...

Wow. What a wonderful, safe outlet to get your man juice on! Thanks for sharing this. It is kind of an eye opener. What a great group you belong to! - Uptonking from Wonderland Burlesque

Anonymous said...

wow! didn't know they had them! how do you find? be a great fill in(most of the time)-your right wives or girl friends don't really care or want?wiifm
'whats in it for me
' bob

whkattk said...

@ bob - There are jack-off groups all over the country. Best places to search is New York Jacks - the granddaddy of them all - they've got a page listing others around the country. A search through Yahoo Adult Groups might also turn up something in your area. Craigslist - though I'm very cautious about anything on this site - been burned a couple times!
The alternative: Start your own.

whkattk said...

@ YFP - Drinking may have helped calm his nerves - but nobody ever got drunk before, during, or after. I think it also helped him to know just how many of the men in that room self-identified as Straight and were married. Bisous, mon ami!!