Friday, December 4, 2015

Tantric Practices (Masturbation)

Now we come to Tantric Masturbation. I suppose it could also be called Mindful Masturbation; it's probably the same thing. Though, I believe, Tantric will work to concentrate the erotic energy to the genitals.
Working in much the same manner as massage, you are working alone to waken the erotic by gently and slowly stroking those erogenous zones you can easily reach: the neck, face, throat, chest, lower abdomen, inner thighs and perineum - at first, typically avoiding the balls and cock.
Again, we begin near the genital area at the base of the shaft, work our way out and away and, then, as the erotic wakens back to the groin. This is when we finally will touch and massage the balls, and begin to slowly stroke the shaft. We want to stay in this advanced stage of erotic energy.

Though, what many refer to as "gooning" is not the goal. The goal is to remain consciously aware of the energy which flows through the body but is peaked within the erection.

We want to attain that moment when the cock is steel hard and testicles have elevated but the Cremaster Muscles have not yet begun to spasm. We can do this by gentle teasing
by running a thumb across the front side of cockhead, and using our index fingers to stimulate the frenulum on the underside of the shaft, just below the head.
Cupping the balls and massaging them also keeps us in a peaked state but assists in lowering them to avoid the point of no return.
Using a different grip than the normal one which makes us cum as we stroke along the shaft both heightens the state of energy and avoids the ejaculation.

Working toward the ejaculation, wrap a hand around the very base of the shaft and stroke all the way up and over the head, then all the way back down. Keep your stroking at a slow, but steady pace. Let your body tell you when to increase the speed, but avoid the furious pounding we men tend to do.

In this way, you'll be aware of the gathering: the tightening of the muscles in your body, the growing tension in the groin. It's important to know this because this is the point you should slide your hand to the very base of the cock.
When that first spasm hits at the prostate, you'll feel the first spurt moving. As it reaches the shaft, gently squeeze your hand around the base and stroke up the shaft with that shot of cum.
Make it a full stroke, up and over the cockhead. Release the pressure, stroke back down the shaft to the base and repeat with every shot that fires through your cock.

As the eruption ebbs, the erotic energy shouldn't have dissipated. You are relaxed, the tension is gone, but the erotic energy? It's still there. Your cock is still drooling, and you can still feel small throbs of the anchoring muscles. Cup and massage the lowering balls, stroke the fullness of the root of your cock in the perineum. Run the head of the cock through the warm slickness.
Lie back, close your eyes, and enjoy the pleasure that radiates from your genitals as it flows through the body.
My apologies if this post loads very slow due to the high number of gifs. Have a wonderful, tantric-filled weekend!


AOM said...

Excellent work, my brother. What you described is what I've studied and practiced in Mindful Masturbation. It is a full body experience all working to slowly awaken and build the erotic energy. Thanks so much for taking the time to explain and describe this beautiful experience. Wishing you a wonderful weekend! Hugging and Stroking with you each day and night. Have a WOOD-filled weekend: ) AOM


Fantastic images to accompany your text! Have a restful weekend! Patrick

Xersex said...

very interesting!

mistress maddie said...

I always have to set time aside when I jack off. It always takes me at least 35 minutes as I like to really stroke and gently play with myself and thoroughly enjoy it.

A French Patrick said...

I see that it is a gifs day! Beautiful! As for me it upload with no problem.
You said "Lie back, close your eyes" I did so at once but, sorry, I have been compelled to reopen them to read the end.
I wish you a wondrous day, my little baby, with a lot of bisous.

Rick Jeans said...

Well done! I agree about the breathing as I noticed men breathing deeper when I give a massage. But sometimes you have to tell them to breathe. LOL!

whkattk said...

@ Rick Jeans - LOL. Yep. I have been guilty of that myself...gasping and holding the breath...and the hips thrust upward to the guy giving the massage, or toward the ceiling if I'm jacking off. Sometimes nature just gets in the way! LOL.

Jean WM said...

Really interesting. Who knew! I would think all guys would do this, and it would be a booming business!!

Christmas parade tomorrow goes right in front of my house at 8:30 a.m. So no sleeping in with marching bands going by!

SickoRicko said...

No apologies necessary; this is a hot, hot post!

whkattk said...

@ Jean - You'd think, right? Shame and embarrassment confine the activity.

Hope the brass and drums passed by without too much noise!

whkattk said...

@ SickoRicko - Thanks. Very happy you liked it!

Rick Jeans said...

Men have done all of that on my massage table too, whkattk, LOL

Fullmoonma said...

The intensity of commenting is our affirmation of the importance of your discussion. Many thanks! I won't add more of my comments now, but I wanted to share a link to Philip Deal's website and his lengthy comments on tantric masturbation - some of the best writing on the subject I've seen.

I've never met Philip in the flesh, although I'd love to trade massage with him, and hadn't seen this piece on his website before. It's his view of tantra, but seems very true to what I've learned - that everyone's practice, each session, is unique.

Semper Veri said...

Slowing down is something I have recently began to explore. While I still enjoy the 'quickie' sensation there is a lot to be said for taking your time and to quote a previous blog post 'have a date with your dick'. That post really stuck with me as I haven't really thought about it in that way before. Being a single man, I have only myself to please and I have began to explore teasing myself and taking time getting to the end result.

I want to thank you for your blog as it has shed a lot of light on being a man and exploring my appreciation toward having a cock and balls. I have always been a 'gooner', but I agree with what you said as there 'is' a difference.

Thank You =)

Anonymous said...

What is "gooning?" Sounds interesting too?.....or not?

SteveXS said...

Great teaching!

Hot Studs said...

Masturbation... <3
Yes, lessons for the young & older studs.

A French Patrick said...

@ Anonymous:
As regards "gooning", I invite you to read the answer at:
As regards me, being french, the Urban Dictionary @ a essential tool to undestand 999 in 1OOO words used by our dear whkattk (lol).

miracleman said...

You do a great service. Thank you.