So, when we're shy about being naked in front of other people, how do we manage to ever have sex? If being seen with what we in the military used to call a "soft-off" (you know, as opposed to a hard-on), how do we make the leap into sex?
I think it has everything to do with our level of arousal. At some point, we forget to be embarrassed - not just about getting naked, but with our cocks standing long and thick and bouncing with anticipation.
Back in my military days, I had no issues with being naked in front of the guys - it's not like you have a choice, anyway. And seeing one another's boners was a daily sight.
But, I had this one woman I had been seeing for a few months. She was always telling me what a nice ass I had, and how much she'd love to get at the "great bulge" in my pants.
I don't know why, I can't explain it... It's not like I hadn't already had sex with a woman - I had. And plenty of mutual jacking with guys. But, for some reason, I had real issues with this woman seeing me naked.
Then, one Saturday night at a drive-in movie (remember those??), we'd reclined in the back seat of my car. Another couple we knew were parked next to us and they were going at it without shame. So, my date started groping my crotch. Instant boner! It wasn't long before I just had to let that thing free.
That cured my problem with being naked in front of anyone.
Yep, even if I sprout a bit of wood.
How did you first get naked for sex with someone who had never seen you?