Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Unwanted Delay

Premature ejaculation (which is defined as cumming before one wants to) is a very common malady for men. Oddly enough, for some men, the exact opposite is true. Delayed ejaculation, not by choice, is a very real thing. It's frustrating. It's painful.

According to MedlinePlus: "Delayed ejaculation is a medical condition in which a male cannot ejaculate. It may occur either during intercourse or by manual stimulation with or without a partner. Physical causes may include blockage of the seminal ducts, certain medications, testosterone deficiency, nerve damage of the pelvic region due to a variety of causes (neurological disease, stroke, spinal cord or back injury)."

The balls swell when we are aroused. Blue Balls, or Lover's Nuts, develop when we've spent too much time in a state of arousal, spend a long time trying to unload the cargo. A painful buildup of fluid in the scrotum adds to the discomfort.

If this problem persists, a trip to the Urologist is in order. It's important to find one who specializes in ejaculatory issues. Testing to determine whether the cause is physical or psychological (for any number of reasons) may be in order, such as using a vibrator 

or other device to masturbate may be suggested.

If you are able to cum by some means (wet dreams, jacking off), but not penetrative sex with a partner) try the opposite of what we do to stave off ejaculation: Squeeze the butt to apply rhythmic stimulation to the prostate as you thrust.


Hopefully, you'll find a solution that works for you


 to find some relief.


AOM said...

Thanks for the info, bro. I appreciate all the time and energy you give to keep us informed and healthy. Have a super jizztastic day. Hugs, Licks, and Together Strokes! AOM

mistress maddie said...

I don't know how, I guess lots of practice, but I've got very good control over and holding back a load. Uless someone gets me really highly turned on.

Xersex said...

sometimes I have some problems to cum twice at my sex club, but the problem is I'm very tired. Here another possible cause!

SickoRicko said...

Great post!

Patrick said...

Thanks again for your visits and comments! I am sure that you are helping a great number of guys who are having these problems!

A French Patrick said...

March 8th being the International Women's Day, as for me I confine myself solely to this topic. The respect to the women and the gratitude which is due to them, it is not only March 8th, it is 365 days a year.
I don't forget all the other women (especially not your courageaous and meritorious wife) but my best wishes go to our adorable Jean. Happy Women's day, Jean, by wishing you a day as beautiful as you are! You are special to me, darling, you are precious, and, in my way, I do love you.

Bye Pat, you will be better served another day.

A French Patrick said...

Postscript: Sorry for the delay. It's an unwanted one, you know what it is, is not it?

Jean WM said...

Wow, It's enough to appreciate when things are going right! Who knew our plumbing could be so complicated, so we should count ourselves lucky if we don't have any of these issues. But thank you Pat for educating us, knowledge is power. Hugs and Bisous. French Patrick, I always enjoy your comments and miss your company.

Gabriel said...

Not only helpful information, but the visuals help too (in an entirely different way!)