So, this arrived in my mailbox yesterday...
"I met this guy a couple years ago at the day spa while we were lounging next to the jacuzzi. We got to talking and hit it off and we established a friendship. I invited him over to hang out and watch a movie on Friday. I noticed a rip in his jeans when he sat down. No big deal, right? I mean lots people walk around with that style. He sat on the couch and the head of his dick was plainly visible. I went to say something and then thought better of it and kept quiet.
During the movie I noticed him kind of mindlessly running a finger around the head of his dick. A while later, I noticed he had an obvious hard-on because his cock was protruding a whole lot more and it was a whole bunch thicker. Then my own decided to spring up and snaked down my pant leg, and I was like I couldn't keep my hands off it.
By the time the movie ended he was running his hand along the entire length of his exposed dick and he looked over at me and smiled. Down went our pants and we spent an hour facing one another watching each other stroking our boners until we came.
When he was leaving he said we should get together for some mutual stroking again. (His exact words) I'm certainly game, but here's the thing. I so wanted to reach over and grab his cock and not just out of curiosity, either. I've never had that inclination before. I'm not sure what he would do if I did grab his dick.
So, two questions. Does this mean I'm not really straight like I thought? If we do this, how do I handle it?"
Well, now. First things first. You aren't the only straight man who has jacked off with a buddy. You sure as hell won't be the last. The fact that you two enjoyed yourselves has nothing whatsoever to do with being straight or gay or any other label. We are human. Humans are sexual beings. Not heterosexual. Not homosexual. Not bisexual. We're just...sexual.
How should you handle it? Handle it the way you would your own cock. Stroke it and tease it the way you do when you're lying in bed at night and jacking off, or kicked back on the sofa stroking away.
Oh! You meant, what should you do? Should you touch his cock or not? Absolutely - tentatively reach over. If it's something he's not into, he'll let you know. If he's not, don't get upset - just go back to playing with yourself.
Whether it stays strictly buddy jack off, or it becomes mutual jack off, enjoy yourselves.
Shrug off the label bullshit.
Any advice, folks?