Wednesday, February 21, 2018

Not the Only Guy

I'm assuming he has no problem getting hard - at least he didn't mention that as an issue, or part of the issue. As I understand it, there is no sensation of ejaculation - no spasms of any kind.
As we reach ejaculation, the cock will get harder than at any point during sexual activity. The balls will elevate. At the point of cumming, the cock will be as stiff as a 2x4, the Cremaster muscles clamp down on the balls, and the smooth muscles surrounding the prostate and those within the abdomen and perineum will rhythmically spasm, sending the semen on its way.




If none of this is happening and, instead, his cock goes limp as if he's already ejaculated, I can see why he's confused. None of the sensations of cumming and an immediate loss of the boner can lead a guy to wonder.

In addition to all the terrific suggestions made yesterday, I'll continue to research this. As Jean pointed out, he's surely not the only guy to experience this.

10 comments:

Xersex said...

some rare time, it happened to me too: I passed from the erection to the flaccid dick, as if my brain had told my genital apparatus that I had already ejaculated.

SickoRicko said...

I hope he gets the problem resolved without too much trouble.

Patrick said...

You are so full of knowledge!!! Wonderful post! Things went well with the doctor - arthritis seems to be the cause of the problem - surgery will fix it, but not recommended - six to eight week recovery with splints! Cool and overcast here today!

Jean WM said...

Is a urologist the person who is the real detective?

I feel sorry for anybody who has to try and explain the gun control issues in the USA. When the Florida students went to the Florida state legislature, the State representatives would not even bring up any gun-contol issues, none. They moved quickly on to how to make porn illegal. Truly.

Hugs and bisous.

A French Patrick said...

It sounds like an excellent live radio broadcast. I mean that we knew we were reading your text but we were there on the scene of the action.

It is more usual to have been having difficulty in ejaculating in a first step, and in a second step to be unable to get an erection for masturbating, by remaining able to ejaculate some liquid without any feeling of cumming. I understand that that can lead a guy to wonder.

Except if he wanked too many times in a row just before. Myself, I must admit that after a thousand consecutive times...

Otherwise, the causes of his anhedonia can be of origin psychological, neurological, or associated with taking medications.

Love, hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

Mark Greene said...

love every hot pic and gif . I really like how the one cock is spewing into the flashback. hot !

AOM SoulFood said...

Hey Bro - Thanks so much for your encouragement, love and support. Things seem to be getting better for my folks, I hope. I really appreciate you. I wish you and yours all the very best. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

whkattk said...

@ Jean - Yep. If his inability to ejaculate continues, a urologist should be able to chase down the problem. Hopefully, it will be fixable.

Anonymous said...

Those of us who have had treatment for prostate cancer can relate. With the prostate removed or turned to a crisp by radiation, there is no more ejaculation and, for me, no more of the powerful pulsing sensation that goes with ejaculating. I really miss ejaculation but just thankful for life and the ability to do lots of others things. But I still miss the thrill and the mess! I wish our brother the best in finding a solution and a hearty return of his ability to ejaculate.

Anonymous said...

It gets complicated. Gun control was originally aimed at minorities, but I somehow doubt Cadet Bone Spurs would favor any gun control policy that wasn't. Even then, the phrase "gun violence" exists as statistical fraud, including suicides and accidents in addition to homicides.

What'll happen is the same thing that happened after Columbine: The gun control people will overreach and ban water guns or something even more ridiculous, and a generation will realize both sides are equally insane.