Friday, February 9, 2018

Plainly Visible

"Summer is only a few months away and I want to be prepared. When my neighbors are at work their son (age unknown but still in school) loves to hang out by the pool in the nude. I can easily see over the cinder block wall that separates our yards. I know his father is aware because when his wife is out shopping he's out there too. I don't have a problem with that. But when the son is out there alone he's playing with his cock. He'll float around on a raft and jack off. Do I say something to my neighbor? Do I tell the kid he's in full view of all the surrounding homes? Or do I just keep my mouth shut?


I wouldn't say anything to his dad. There are laws that protect us all - police would say we have a right to "an assumption of privacy." That means he can assume the fence is protection enough. My neighbor is almost 7' tall; if I didn't want him to see me, I'd have to add a couple rows of block on top of what is already there. My wife warned them when they moved in that I'm always out there in the buff. If he's ever witnessed me, he's never said anything.

There's a difference between whacking off in your own back yard and taking it to the streets as exhibitionists like to do - at the risk of being arrested.
The nudity shouldn't be your concern - even if he gets a boner. We're men, our cocks get hard; that's just the way it is. But you might let the him know his activities are plainly visible, that he might want find a spot that might shield him from neighbors when he feels the need to stroke one out.




What do you think, Readers?
Who should he talk to?


Patrick said...

Another great post! Never had a similar situation to deal with. Your advice is very sensible! Trust you have a restful weekend. Heat and humidity have returned here!

Adam said...

Who should he talk to? No one at all. If the young man is in his own fenced backyard, it's no one's business. Period.

If the neighbor is bothered, he should stop looking and respect the privacy of the young man exploring and enjoying his own body.

SickoRicko said...

Great advice as usual, and great pool-side pix, too!

Jean WM said...

Man should tell the father, just so he knows, and let the father decide what to say or not.

Have a great weekend, hugs and bisous! More ☃️

A French Patrick said...

He should talk to nobody, you and us included.
Especially if he knows that his father is aware.
Especially if he doesn't have a problem with that.

He can look into a different direction.
He can raise the height of the cinder block wall that separates their yards.

If the kid is in full view of all the surrounding homes, why would he be the one who should have to open his big mouth rather than another neighbour?
I guess that if he has no problem at all with that, the other neighbours are having even fewer problem than not at all.

Have a great weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat. Love, hugs and bisous.

Gabriel said...

That is an interesting question. If the dad also goes out there in the nude, then I might talked to the dad about the fact that he can see him (the dad) and just wanted to make him aware of it. I would not mention the jacking off because you don't want to traumatize the son and make him feel embarrassed about it. That could be harmful to him.

Fullmoonma said...

Wish I had this problem!

I've got to assume that the neighbor boy is showing off, so I wouldn't talk the boy or his parents. Watch him if you want to - or not...

that one guy said...

I'm torn between advising the author to say something to the son (NOT the father) and advising him to keep his mouth shut.

• Saying something along the lines of "just so you know..." but also making it clear that it doesn't bother you at all, and you're not planning to mention it to his dad, and you're also not a pervert jacking off in the bushes while you watch him.
• Don't say anything, and maybe one day he will figure it out --- e.g. he might come over to your house and look over the wall and realize "holy crap, I've been in full view all this time."

Another way to handle it might be to just call out a casual hello sometime while you're doing yard work, but ignore the fact that he's naked & stroking: a typical neighborly "time to cut the grass already" kind of thing, then go back to what you're doing without acknowledging what he's doing. (Only if the wall is of a height and location that you can casually see over it while doing something else, such as mowing the lawn or trimming bushes. You don't want to look like that much of a pervert... do you?)

A side question, more curiosity than anything: I wonder how old the kid is. "Age unknown but still in school:" could be anywhere from junior high to college. From a legal point of view, how you handle this might make a difference --- you certainly don't want to look like a pedophile who is grooming a young neighbor boy.

Sorry if my comment is kind of long: this is fun to think about :)

Xersex said...

and if the boy would get excited, just knowing to be seen?

yves daigneault said...

let the kid be.
it's his space.
the back yard is private.

Tex said...

If the dad is out there in the nude sometimes too then he has taught the kid some great lessons about body image. If you say something to him about seeing his teenage son jerking off in the pool, that's just gonna make for bad neighbor relations. There is a fine line here. As was said, the kid is not jerking off in public; he's in his own yard. I would just keep quiet and let the kid enjoy himself.