And, yet another one.
"New semester, new dorm mate. The routine never varies. He drops his clothes, lays on his bed, watches porn on his tablet, and jacks off. Every night. I'm not complaining because I watch. I can't help myself. My dick gets hard as a rock but I don't dare stroke along.
I was raised in a very conservative atmosphere. No talk of sex, no discussions about masturbation. It was done in secret. I'm sure everyone knew what took me so long in the bathroom but it was never talked about.
My problem is that I'm envious that this guy can just do this so out in the open. I want to be like him. It would be so great to lay there every night like that instead of jerking off in the shower all the time. How do I change my mindset?"
I'm assuming your real problem is that you don't want him to see you stroking your boner. Ask him sometime - openly talk about masturbation and ask him how he became so open with it. In small steps, I would think, you might be able to get comfortable. Maybe, with your hand barely moving, play with your cock under the covers. If you have a towel down, you could roll to your side when you cum. You might even lie on your side for the entire thing.
Each night, you might get a little more brazen. Maybe he notices your hard-on. Then, the next night, he notices you touching your cock. The next, he can see you deliberately playing and stroking. Keep going forward in steps until you're able to remove the covers.
Can you help him out with some suggestions?