Thank you all for the emails. It's been a tough week, and the weekend looks to be the same. The yo-yo weather patterns haven't helped, but there's been too much to do to lie around.
This landed in my email inbox:
"It's Thursday night, just past 7, and I just returned from an overnight business trip with a co-worker. Normally we share hotel rooms with 2 beds, but the place was booked and all they had was a single King. We were kind of stuck. We both sleep naked - no big deal and I thought sharing the bed would be the same. However I woke this morning with him wrapped around me and his monster dick hard and sandwiched against the small of my back. Morning wood aside, it was a little freaky to say the least. Now he claims that he sleeps at home with a body pillow and it wasn't intentional and that he must've moved naturally during the night in his sleep.
For the first time ever it was an awkward morning, and flight home. Now I have to face him at work and I'm still a little freaked out over the whole episode. How do I handle this?"
OK, first, you say you're used to traveling together, sharing a room, sleeping naked, and I'd be willing to bet you've seen each other's morning erections. You also know those boners have nothing to do with sex.
So, then, why are you so freaked out that, in having to share a bed, his touched you? You're reading too much into this. It's weird because you are making it weird.
If he explained spooning you at some point during the night was an unconscious thing during sleep, completely innocent, take him at his word.
After all, you didn't wake right when it happened, did you? No, you were sleeping soundly.
When you see him at the office, smile and greet him like every normal Friday. Forget about it and go about the day as you usually do. In a couple of weeks, it'll be something you can joke and laugh about over coffee during the next trip.
Have a good weekend, everyone.