Monday, August 20, 2018

Keep the Fleshlight

"I asked this of another blogger but wanted to get your opinion too. If a relationship turns into a "move in" thing, do I have to get rid of my Fleshlight?"
I don't know how the other blogger answered, but my response is an emphatic "No." Why would you? Masturbation sleeves - particularly Fleshlights - are popular items for men. A lot of guys have more than one. Different types provide different sensations (vaginal, oral, anal). Is your spouse-partner-significant other unable or unwilling to engage in any one of those?
As has been said many times about jacking off, "Your hand never turns you down."

Well, a masturbation sleeve is never unwilling or unable (unless you've worn it out!) to give you the sensations you want when you want them.


In addition to that, guys jack off regardless of relationship status. Masturbating when we get home from work doesn't stop us from enjoying a good romp at bedtime. Jerking off in the shower in the morning won't keep us from sex in the afternoon.


Keep the Fleshlight. Enjoy the Fleshlight.


If your significant other asks why you still have it, refer to the information above.

12 comments:

AOM SoulFood said...

AMEN! Keep those toys! Masturbation is NOT a substitute for sex - It is sex with yourself - It is how we give love and pleasure to ourselves - regardless of relationship status, Self-Loving is an important, integral part of our sexual well-being. Have a super day, my Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Mistress Maddie said...

I never had a flashlight till the Lad bought me one as a birthday gift one year, for when he isn't around. I love it. He even uses it on me, and enjoys watching me use it myself.

Unknown said...

The picture asked about is in the ruins of Hadrian's country palace. Trust you have a good week!

SickoRicko said...

Terrific advice for a great device!

JeanWM said...

This might be a good offensive approach versus defensive. Bring it up first and explain what it is. I’d be real surprised if the partner doesn’t have a similar device. Let them try it out on you ;-)

Hugs and bisous.

Mark Greene said...

Yes Keep that fucker! It will get you through many times. We as men are sexual beings. and sometimes we just want some alone time. If anyone has a partner that is jealous of a flashback ??? He has issues and needs professional help. I love sex with my man. But I know there are times I just want to be alone and do me. And let me tell you the hand feels NOTHING like a fleshjack and it's not as messy.

Sooo-this-is-me said...

I don't think it's a matter of either or, lots of people include it in their sex lives for added fun.

whkattk said...

@ Jean - Perfect advice!

sstax said...

Since we touched this subject, can we review which one is good? Flashlight? Tenga? or others?

I would love to know.

Anonymous said...

Yep, there's the hands-free Fleshlight in the photo with the guy's hands behind his head. I bought both of my boys regular Fleshlights when they turned 18. The youngest just had his birthday, and he loved it. I'm sure they get used a lot. *sigh* They're BOTH off to college this year. It's awfully quiet around here. - Dad

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