Monday, October 8, 2018

Excessive T

"We're a gay couple with two kids. We know mood swings are normal but it feels like our 14-year old son is over the top. We've had "the talk" with him and, after finding his crumpled briefs in the hamper that he'd obviously used to clean up from masturbating, we gave him lube and a stack of hand towels. When he gets surly we encourage him to "go take a load off." But, lately, he's been getting angry over such little things. Is this what is meant by raging hormones?"




It depends on how angry he gets. If he's damaging things, it could be more than hormones and you might want to ask him what's happening in his life that he so easily flies off the handle. Make sure he knows you are not chastising, you're asking because you love him and want to help. Make sure he's not taking drugs - or steroids to bulk up.
If nothing out of the ordinary is going on according to him, reach out to one of his teachers and ask if he or she might be aware of issues at school. Maybe he's being taunted and bullied there for some reason. If the answer is still no, then it's time to take him to a doctor for a complete physical and have his Testosterone levels checked. His T may be off the charts. 
In that case, no amount of jerking off is going to help him.


 


I can't find anything relating to excessive levels of T in men. It seems most consider it a myth; impossible. Yet, a couple of places considered high T levels to be a contributor to testicular tumors. The only thing I might be able to suggest is to see an endocrinologist.
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7 comments:

AOM SoulFood said...

Hey bro, Sorry. I don't have a suggestion for your email - I'd have to know more about the situation and the people - it could be many things like you listed. Sorry your weather is not as nice - I hope you can have a wonderful day in spite of it. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Xersex said...

Is this what is meant by raging hormones?
probably!

SickoRicko said...

I no nothing.

Mistress Maddie said...

This is the first I habe heard about this anger thing. I don't recall any of my friends getting angry or myself like this. I do know steroids will give way to anger, but don't know if he's working out or not. It could also be just teenage anger also wanting independence.

FRENCH PATRICK said...

Interesting. I am curious to know the continuation of the events that doesn't seem very obvious to me, by hoping that you favored the best outcome, as often, and by wishing them good luck.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

JeanWM said...

I think you covered all of the obvious possibilities. Sometimes this is where sports really works for kids this age, it helps some to simply blow off steam. Like track and field where there a a lot of aerobic exercises. Running, exercise you can do forever. Hugs and bisous.

T said...

The 'teenage hormones' thing gets used for everything. More times than not there will be something else going on; issues at school, with friends etc. Very rarely would it be a medical issue. What I would put money on is something happening at school/friends. Gay parents, the hostile environment of high school and you can guarantee someone is giving him shit for it. Outside of your own 4 walls who knows how other parents are raising their kids. There is no standard.

The jerking off bit; what were you doing at 14? As if he would be doing anything different.