The cock doesn't lie. The cock cannot lie. Men can deny, deny, deny in an attempt to fool themselves but all it does is deprive them of pleasure.
That said, different but connected things could be happening. Different because the fact he gets boners there doesn't mean his arousal stems from seeing other men naked. He may have an exhibitionist side to him that causes the rise.
Lots of men get a hard, or semi hard when showering.
Have you taken notice of your own cock while you're soaping up? The response to physical sensation is normal.
Yet those are all connected because they are all still stimuli causing a physiological, though sexual, response.
Any other thoughts, readers?
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Soaping up, like you mentioned, can sometimes do the trick.
To lie also means be in a horizontal or resting position on a supporting surface Therefore, I am sorry (fake news) but I think that I doesn't lie if I say that the cock can lie, for instance not further than on our pubis.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a wondrous weekend.
dick can't lie! Thanks, dick!
Very true!
Showering always induces a hard on for me, perhaps as I always pull my foreskin back prior to entering the water stream for hygiene cleaning, the feeling of that water hitting my cock is great! Showering usually ends with a wank or a stint with the Fleshlite, even whilst still showering!
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In my younger days I almost always got a semi hard on in the shower. Yes, soaping everything up is pleasurable but I was also turned on by the warm water flowing over everything. First thing I did when I got my own place was to buy an adjustable, hand held shower head. Sorry, that was a little off topic but I had fun remembering.
Good answers. Seems to me that if a guy always wanks in the shower, then taking a shower would tell the cock to get ready for some fun. Have a phab weekend, my Friend. Hugs, Licks, ans Strokes, AOM
It could be embarrassment or shame that sets him off. When I was a freshman in college my roommate and I shared a Jack and Jill bathroom with our dorm resident. I was taking a shower to get ready to go to an event and my roommate imposes himself on my shower and jumps into the shower with me. I was embarrassed by his invading my privacy and got hard. Then he begins to tease me about it and I got angry and probably even more hard. When a guy gets an erection don’t judge him.
There's also the workout boner. Some guys just get hard from the rush of testosterone.
@ Anon, Jan 11 - You're correct. Those happen quite frequently to guys. Between the testosterone rush and the movement against material, it's a natural physiological response.
I hope he was more encouraging of his friend and not judgmental. I have the same issue and have a difficult time not getting hard in the showers after a workout. For me I think it’s partially the rush of blood, etc. from the workout, but also some self consciousness about being naked in front of people I don’t know. Regardless, it happens and shouldn’t be shamed.
It could be the freedom of being nude is an arousing experience, the body is free and all senses are heightened. Being nude period is a very erotic feeling for me even when alone.
A hard man is a good thing to find.
It happens. I think it happens most at the gym, with all that physical activity many men (me included) get a little... sensitive to stimuli. I think it's natural.
XOXO
His buddy denied any interest in guys. How strong a denial was it?
Casual? Or "Don't even think I'd like to make it with guys! I'm
100% man, buddy!"
Any further investigation should be done carefully-- or you hurt the
friendship!
Is the questioner interested in advancing his friendship to a new
level?? If yes, then the questioner could casually make a comment
that he likes what he sees. Or ask his buddy if he sees something
he likes... like the questioner! - Paul
I don't think the act of showering would get me aroused especially with a standard height shower head. It's interesting that many of you guys say that running water would do it for you. I wonder if you're referring to a handheld sprayer with a directed water spray. I wonder if the guy knows his buddy is actually looking at his penis? Are they both looking or just one guy? I struggle to relate because I don't have any buddies that I shower with. It would be nice though.
I hope we aren't saying that all erections in showers must mean something. That's bull.
I think erections sometimes mean something and sometimes they just happen.
Do we really need to psychoanalyze every erection out there? This is how people screw with their own minds that yields nothing but newly created hang-ups.
Just enjoy it and move on and enjoy life. And if others can't do that....then I feel sorry for them. They are wasting the short amount of time given to them.
@ Anon Feb 11 - Not saying an erection in the showers mean anything at all. It very well could be just the reaction to being soaped - which is quite normal and natural, and nothing to feel ashamed about.
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