I really do appreciate hearing from readers. That folks enjoy and learn is the goal of this blog.
"I really appreciate your blog. Lots of good information and great photos. I am a 70 year old gay man married to a woman 43 years in an open marriage and have a boyfriend of one year. So far so good. Even older men like myself can learn from your blog. LOL. ~ Les "
The idea of open marriage has been around forever for varying reasons. Yours is as legitimate as any. Plenty of straight men can find themselves with a woman who has no interest in sex and allows him to seek release by other means, be it his own hands or a Friend With Benefits. It works as long as everyone is happy and satisfied.
"sometimes my dick gets so super hard that i cant wait to emntpy my nuts and ill jerk it as fast as i can even if i'm in like a mens room and pretending to take a piss. does this happen to other dudes"
What guy hasn't been so horny at some point that he's thinking about nothing but getting his rocks off as fast as possible? After all, "The Quickie" has been around for...forever.
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I'm telling you pat your blogs to the highlight of many people's days, for a mryid reasons. I'm very hard pressed to find a place where a guy to not ran one off. Some of the places that's happened to me would probably shock you. I want to come to the men's room, it's been too legitimately either run one off, or was out the cruise and get my dick sucked.
PS, if I walked into men's room and saw that last guy in the gif, I would totally have him in a stall! That is a hot gift
Ohhh
He's quite the stud. Love that.
And open marriages have always functioned, especially without the stupid judgement of other people who have no idea what the couple/throuple think or feel.
And I think it would be hot to watch a dude jerk off in a bathroom...
XOXO
As far as I know the moon is a place a guy has never jacked off…
I can't swear that no cosmonaut has done it without daring to let it be known. Otherwise I wish him that his cock didn't get frozen.
Without going so far, on the opposite, the same goes for the side of an erupting volcano.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Enjoy a great weekend.
On the moon. *maybe*
I've done my share of unloading semen in men's rooms. At a rest stop in Virginia years ago, four of us shot off at the urinals. And I was never made to feel ashamed to do it when my dadand I were camping.
@ MFP & Rick - Maybe not ON the moon, but I'd bet certainly on the space station. I mean, could those guys be up there for that long and not? Hasn't there been studies regarding the effects of outer space on sperm?
I think the Space Station is the 250,000 Mile High Club. Happy Weekend Hugs and Bisous.
In College, every day, between class!
In year 15 of my second "open" relationship. I think it's pretty common for gay couples. We're closed to other strong emotional attachments, but open to sexual activities with other men, including in having long-term erotic buddies. About 30 years ago I read "The male couple" a book that tried to discover the norm in gay relationships at a time when little was published. Authors found that only two of the couples they interviewed and had been together for 6 years had not had outside sex - and one was an asexual relationship.
There seem to be several explanations for this. Men's desires have been shaped by evolutionary processes to spread their seed widely. There's a joy in discovering new men to enjoy in this way. And patterns emerge in sexual relationships. In our case, we both prefer to bottom and need to go outside the relationship to find willing tops. Also, we're in an intergenerational relationship and the younger partner's desires are stronger - less fulfilled by masturbation.
Our shared calendar has our outside dates, but we rarely discuss any of the details. I've met a few of his buds for shared meals. He has one regular top bud, which I've actually known for almost 30 years, done erotic workshops with, and discovered that we had no "spark". I'll rearrange my schedule so they have opportunities to get together. Most of my outside erotic shares have boon erotic massage trades, a continuation of a 30 year long practice involving hundreds of men.
When I first met my current partner, I'd been seeing one top for a number of years. We tried sharing him but that didn't feel very good so eventually I stopped seeing him for sex. My need to get penetrated had also decreased with the intimacy of my new relati9nship.
How did I come to this pattern? My first partner had been sexually active for 6 years when we met. I'd just started having sex with other men. He demonstrated that he was comfortable in having sex outside a relationship the first day we met. His current relationship was no longer working well for him and soon we were living together. But he liked sex a lot, and made it clear that trips to the gay bathouses that existed pre-HIV were something he wasn't going to give up. I think that's where he met the BF of the man who had given me my first life-changing BJ a year before and launched my coming out process. They became erotic friends, but we four also socialized a few time before they moved to another city. Ah, the 1970's!
@ Jean - LOL. That sounds about right! Hugs and bisous.
@ fullmoonma - That is really quite the journey. You should write a memoir. Really. I think a lot of people could learn a few things from those experiences.
The first a saw hard one was in the men's room, I love it!
I am writing a memoir - it's my blog how2bate dot blogspot dot com. I think the first 175 pages are the most like a memoir - the highlights of bating from 1994 - 2013. Subsequent 1500 pages are more of a daily journal of my bating, which would need a lot of editing!
what a great idea: an open marriage!
Popping one off is a tradition. If you haven't - you must be a Repulsivecan. Ronald Reagan never popped one off (which explains a lot), neither Mitch - he can barely find his balls most days. As for open relationships.. yazz. The wave of the future, my dear. Kizzes.
Thought the Russian space agency conducted ‘experiments ‘ involving intercourse in space.
Getting hard at the urinals regularly occurs to me. Sometimes I got so horny I could hardly decide whether to piss first or cum first. You see, I have no diffuculties peeing with wood, so there is always the horny-piss option.
More often than in a restroom I jacked off when parking in the woods. Shooting my load in a natural surrounding makes me feel more manly and primeval to say so. Either way, it is fun.
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