Cum Again?

Ladies, you really have an advantage here, don’t you? We guys are trying our best to catch up on this score, but it’s a tougher pole to climb. It is possible though, guys. But don’t be confused with orgasm and cum.

Yeah, I know, when we’re in our teens, young, and extremely horny we can shoot over and over again as if the root of our cocks were connected to a reservoir the size of Lake Superior. Blaine Sumner, one of the models Ron Lloyd used in his Body Solo 4 collection, is a true jack-off artist immediately moving from a geyser in an outdoor shower to a torso bath in a hot-tub and barely loses his hard-on in between. Oh, and did I mention he’s hung like a Shetland Pony? In an interview on this dvd, he says his record ejaculations for one day is 13 and his younger brother isn’t far behind at 11. But, as we age, the lake gradually reduces until it’s more like the dregs of a coffee cup. But that doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy the orgasm without the ejaculation.

I’ve mentioned the Body Electric School before and their weekend seminar Celebrating the Body Erotic. The seminar teaches how to have a full body orgasm without cumming. And it’s possible to do over and over again, time after time, and never lose that steel pole. Using a combination of stroking and breathing techniques, you learn how to bring yourself or a buddy to orgasm, taking them (or yourself) higher and higher with each one. The sensations are exquisite and can have you gasping with delight.

To be able to enjoy the sensations of the whole body humming and writhing in the same sense of spasms and keep the final explosion of rocketing jizz for hours later is a real treat. And it’s not a matter of squeezing off the cum at the base, or head, of the cock either. It’s all in the rhytms of breath. Beginning with slow, deep, oxygen-rich inhales and slow, deliberate exhales, you relax your body and calm the mind until everything but your body has faded out of cognizance. Then begin the touches – over the whole upper torso: arms, hands, head, neck, shoulders, chest, abs, cock, balls, inner thighs, perineum, anus – light and soft, letting the sensations register in your brain. Tease your cock without wrapping your hand around it – use your fingertips along the sides of the shaft, to run circles around the coronal ridge of the head, to pinch and squeeze the frenulum – sense it growing, expanding, getting hard. And keep breathing in deliberate rhythm as you finally wrap a hand around the very base of the shaft and begin to stroke. Make your breathing match your strokes and always keep your mind focused on the response of your body. Feel and respond to the tightening of the abs, the tensing of the inner thigh muscles, let your whole body tighten. Nothing should penetrate your thoughts but the feeling in your body. Intensify the breaths, faster and shallower as your body coils upon itself – it feels as if your cock will let loose with an explosion of cum that could drown you. As that happens, stroke your cock but don’t touch the head, take one last deep breath and hold it as your body rocks and you can feel the muscles contract and relax over and over… Breath again with the contractions – let the gasps happen but slowly begin to control it again and allow your body to sink back down to the floor or bed in relaxation.

You can begin again as soon as you want. You can orgasm like that as often as you wish. Of course, you can do this with a partner. One administers the touch and strokes and guides in the breathing and you can trade off. Your brain registers nothing but the sensations of his touch and his guidance of breath. But I warn you – when your nuts feel heavy and full, like they’re a couple of 5-pound weights dragging on the floor, and you do decide you are finally ready to let your spunk spew – be prepared, because the resultant explosion will be unlike any you’ve ever experienced in your life. Your cock will be harder than you ever thought possible, your body will rock and coil and spasm in so many different directions, your brain will feel like it’s on overload, and you’ll blow a load like never before. It’ll be a geyser of hot, slippery wetness to rival Old Faithful. You, your partner (if you’ve gotten with someone for this – and it is easier, and feels better, too), and everything around you will be splattered with cum.

At the end of it all, you’ll feel so relaxed, so at peace, there will be a sensation of lightness through your entire body (you’ve heard the phrase “incredible lightness of being”? well, this is it). And the key after that final spewing is to lie there, quietly for at least fifteen to twenty minutes. If you’ve engaged a partner, it’s best if he (or she) lies beside you, almost enveloping you, and cradles your body with stillness, no movement at all.