Monday, October 24, 2016

Common Ground

Then there was this received over the weekend:

"I'm the oldest son of the man who wrote in earlier this tyear. Remember my mom who went bat-shit crazy over me and my buddies whacking it together. So I moved in with my dad and things have been really good The best news is that my brother finally won his freedom too. Last week the judge said he's old enough to decide for himself where he wants to live and chose me and our dad. Our mom is pissed off but we're all happy to be away from her. Me and my brother share a room now. After our dad came in to wake us up the first morning my brother was horrified because dad saw his boner. Well, it was poking up out of his boxers and he could hardly miss it. Anyway, it's like my brother is looking to me for help and I guess that's ok, but I still think dad should be the one to be telling him about this shit, H'es going to have to have a lot of things explained because our mom sure as hell didn't teach us anything. Is it up to me or should I tell dad?"
This is all common ground. Really. Males all face the same issues when it comes to the behavior of their cocks. 



We just need to learn to talk about it instead of ignoring everything.
But... First things first. There's nothing wrong with him relying on you for information - as long as you know what you're talking about. But, it might be a good idea for you to bring up the subject of morning wood when all three of you can talk it out.

If you're afraid your brother will feel like you ratted him out, tell your father in private and suggest that he broach the subject. Regardless, he needs to stop wearing those boxers to sleep in. Nothing below the waist. That goes for you, too. I know your father has read this blog for a long time, and I'm a bit surprised he hasn't told you two about the dangers of boners getting caught in clothing. Serious damage can occur.
So, naked below the waist from now on. Always!

If you're lucky - or if you feel confident enough - the conversation should go a lot further than morning boners.

Particularly if you and your brother are sharing a room. 


Xersex said...

well given answer!

AOM said...

I know it is indicative of our time but these things should not ever be an issue - something needs to change in our culture so that the normal and natural ways of being human is considered normal and natural and talked about in a normal and natural way. Good to have blogs like yours where people can get good information. Thanks for all you do. Wishing you a glorious bonerific day, bro. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

SickoRicko said...

Great advice and terrific pix!

Spear said...

For a start, the younger brother ought to be introduced to this blog. The info here on a daily basis is as good or maybe better than what he'll get anyplace else. That's not to be putting the dad down, but the info is here now. Dad will talk to his son when it right if not right now. For a start, the three are together finally and that's where it should be.

Jean WM said...

Let the dad be the leader. This will teach something to the boys for their future to lead if they have children.

Also with parents one rule should be, "The buck stops here." Good time to start a tradition of 'splaining things, and remind the boys to do the same when their turn comes. Love and bisous.

Anonymous said...

Thank you! I 've learned so much over
The past few months. I am not sure
If my father knows this stuff.

Anonymous said...

Good stuff.

whkattk said...

@ Anon - I'm very glad the blog has been helpful. That your dad may not know all this stuff is not surprising because too many men don't know all they should about their own bodies. I hope you'll continue to read - and comment.