Tuesday, October 11, 2016

Without Guilt

Today is National Coming Out Day. This is to commemorate the first March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay rights. I have just learned that one of my great nieces is lesbian. It's so wonderful that the reaction of the family upon seeing a picture of her with her first (open) girlfriend was to remark how beautiful they both are. I've often said here that human sexuality is a fluid thing. There is no flat line between heterosexual and homosexual.

I was in my mid-20s before I engaged in what would be considered a homosexual act. Oh, long before that, I'd jacked off with my brother and our buddies, our hands stroking one another's cocks.

I'd had plenty of jack off buds, and attended a lot of circle jerks in the military.


But, this was different. Way different. I met an honest-to-God farm boy. What I expected was to be no more than mutual masturbation


changed when he went down on me.
Then he swiveled around and put his hard cock in my face. I don't know what possessed me, but I reciprocated. And realized I liked it.
I had a few male relationship in between several hetero relationships. Moving back and forth between men and women. Then I met my (current) wife. As she has said a few times, "Sex is sex. It doesn't matter what gender you're with, if you find it pleasurable, there's no reason to feel guilty or ashamed of that."
Today, we should take the fluidity of human sexuality to heart. If you self-identify as straight, having a jack off buddy


or attending a jack off group
really means only one thing: Your sexuality is fluid. 
Enjoy yourself without guilt.


Xersex said...

be sure: I enjoy myself without giult! thanks for your comment on my post about the same subject!

mistress maddie said...

I agree with your post whole heartedly. I thanks for sharing your own experiences. I have several straight gay relationships and love it.

Anonymous said...

Pleased to see you are still giving great advice with hot images! Keep up (Oops!) the good work!

Jean WM said...

If we're honest we all have a pretty good idea where our interests lie but who knows what the future will bring. Great Post.
❤️ and 😘 . OK I see the eye rolling, no more emojis...

AOM said...

Amen, brother - we connect to all different people regardless of gender - love is love - sex is sex - why not enjoy it all - Thanks for promoting a healthy attitude - I hope you are well and having fun. Have a cum-bathed day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

SickoRicko said...

Fabulous post with terrific pix!

Fullmoonma said...

Sexuality is indeed pretty fluid, although I got rather stuck in my 20's with the quick morning jack-off of tension into the bathroom sink. Every once in a while when I'm in the same bathroom I remember this bleak phase. Eventually I came out at age 32, quickly found a partner learned a lot about gay sex, and then 15 years later discovered Body Electric work which transformed and enriched my erotic life. Started an erotic journal 22 years ago, and a masturbation blog about 4 years ago, which is a great way of understanding how erotic life is constantly changing. I've only had my cock in a vagina a couple of times, and that with a guy. I have to say it felt really good but my sexual orientation is steadfastly gay. I'm a little envious of guys who can share sexual experience with all genders, but it's not how I am. Never the less I agree completely with the premise of today's posting and encourage all men to try new experiences.

French Patrick said...

I wish all the best to your great niece and her first "(open)" girlfriend. It's moving. Congratulations to your niece's parents, regrettably, it is an isolated example, not everybody react so wonderfully well. Doubtless the effect of your good influence, I think. What else? Their experiences to the army? I doubt it.
Bisous, mon chéri.
Love, Jean.