In the back-and-forth exchange with the friend and the father, I did indeed suggest a "pro" be brought in - either a massage therapist (which would probably be good to help the healing process, anyway) or a prostitute.
The response was money. Da doesn't make a whole bunch and some things aren't covered by their country's health plan. I did suggest they try to convince the physicians that massage should be prescribed, then find one who would take care of this issue, as well. There's bound to be one willing to help this young man.
"Mum should be shot" was my response to the friend's email:
"Got a panic phone call from my mate. He overheard his mum telling his Da they should ask the doctor to give him a pill. Jerr, she want me to take medicine to keep my pecker from getting hard. I think that's a bloody horrible idea."
Chemical castration? What?!?! No. And, no. And, no. I'm not even sure any doctor would agree to prescribe it. Not for a young man with what everyone hopes is a temporary situation. That, with work, he can regain the use of his one arm.
Mum definitely needs some educating.
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Oh dear! Could the injured man possibly go live with his mate?
How would she like it if we stitched shut her female dainty bits?!?!?!?!?
Education indeed.
Thank you for your lovely comment Pat! I will miss you terribly also So much so I sent you something,lol!!
Be back soon!
I completely agree that Mum needs to be educated. Hopefully, she will begin to feel compassion for her son and become open to the reality of his needs and change her thinking. I hope all is well with you and your, bro. I'm off for another three day romantic weekend with myself! : ) Enjoy your weekend, my Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
Castration, chemical or otherwise, is extreme and cruel. There's got to be a better solution. I'd never do that to my two boys. - Dad
Had a lazy day yesterday! Did almost nothing!!! It is amazing how a jeans post gets a terrific response. Feel real sorry for this guy. His mother needs some compassion for her so. "dad" needs to be firm and do something for him.
Reading between the lines here, with the colloquialisms and the fact that it’s a “religious” home, I’m fairly confident this is an Irish family, deeply, deeply entrenched in Catholicism with all that entails: sex is for procreation, masturbation is wrong, dirty etc. A penis, especially a hard one, is dirty... I’m sure you get the picture. Even talk of sexual matters is taboo, there would likely be no sex education received.
This is deep seated stuff, the reality is that mother is highly unlikely to come around to the idea of anything beyond what she’s suggested. A professional? Not a chance, especially a prostitute.
Dad’s awkwardness will also be steeped in this religious naivety, and whilst he may want to help his son is probably feeling alienated and unable to speak up on his son’s behalf, ill equipped for this situation and trying desperately to adjust to the after math of the trauma.
If anything is going to happen to help this young man, mum will need to be bypassed altogether, and have no knowledge of it. It’s the only way. Depending on how entrenched in her religious beliefs she is, she’s not likely to speak to a doctor or other professional so an open educative conversation... not gonna happen.
To the dad if you read this, I’m not criticising your wife or your religious lifestyle. But please, step in and allow your son’s friend back. Don’t talk about anything with your wife. Allow the friend to have some time with your son on their own, catching up. Either take your missus out or let them go out. Let the boys take care of things between themselves. No discussion necessary and then no one gets hurt.
Time for dad to speak up and time for the doctor to speak up. Isn’t the goal for him to get well fast?
Hooray. The weekend. Hugs and bisous.
There is something else going on besides the dick stuff. Thats just a sideshow to whatever else is going on. Parents unable to see past their childs current health situation? Parents think the son is damaged/broken? Homophobic mother? Over-zealous religion clouding judgement or getting in the way of medical treatment? What is the real issue here??
Best believe if your not jerking off or having sex your body will take care of itself. If you are not ejaculating by your own means your body will do it for you.
This is not a situation of just is the son getting off or not. There is something far deeper going on. Counselor, therapist or psychiatrist would be a better place to go. Prostitute can only take care of the dick; cant help with the other stuff.
It is hard to say what all the medical problems are, if he is able to get around would a fleshlight or similar product help. It wouldn't be as good as a hand but better than nothing at all.
T said "Best believe if your not jerking off or having sex your body will take care of itself. If you are not ejaculating by your own means your body will do it for you."
Not necessarily, T. I've never had a wet dream, even when I was 18 and had to go for 2 weeks without jacking off due to bashfulness and lack of privacy. I was of course horny as hell and had trouble sleeping or concentrating, and my balls ached, and I had vivid dreams about sex all night long... but never had a wet dream. I don't know how long it would have taken, but it sure seemed like it should have happened before the 2 weeks were up.
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