When the messages first arrived in my Inbox I was pretty sure these guys were scamming me, blowing smoke up my ass as it were. After several rounds of emails, it turns out to have been a coordinated effort. They figured if they both wrote I would believe they're sincere.
A few days back his Da called. Turns out my friend refuses to allow his mum to bathe him because his pecker got hard. She was shocked and it grossed him out that his mum gave him a boner. His Da took over the duty but he feels a bit on the squeamish side after an unexpected and untimely mess shall we say. Now he's uncomfortable with it, too."
The father's email:
"Have you ever seen a grown bloke cry? My son has been through a lot since a awful wreck left him broken bad. He's tough to look at and he's been miserable. He can use the arm they didn't amputate but not well. He manages to get thumb and forefinger positioned to hold himself to piss but that's all. He needs someone to bathe him, help him dress, things, feed him. All the normal things. He won't allow his mum to bathe him because he got an erection when she did. I took over and got a different kind of bath. He kept saying I'm sorry Da, I'm sorry. It just happened. Well, Christ on a cross, we're a religious home and I can't be doing my own son no matter how much his bollocks hurt. But I can't stand to see him weep. Now, my wife caught my son's best mate tossing him one and threw the boy out of the house. I want to get him in here if he's willing to help my son."
Vasocongestion, otherwise known as Blue Balls, can be very painful. It's a swelling of tissues caused by an increase in blood flow and increased blood pressure in the area. Typical cause in men is extended sexual arousal without release (ejaculation).
The body will sometimes find ways to eliminate via spontaneous ejaculation during REM sleep, commonly known as a wet dream.
But not all men are so lucky. Nevertheless, this guy deserves the comfort of release. Since he can't do it himself
Then, as I see it, they have two choices: Either Da grows a pair and puts his foot down to allow his son's friend back into the house,
or Da oils up a hand.
A guy helping a friend (particularly under these conditions) isn't an indication of sexual orientation. If he says he's straight, then he's straight. He's just not afraid to touch (and stroke) his buddy's cock to help him get his rocks off.
Any words of wisdom for these two?
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I have no other ideas more than what you have provided - not sure if mum would be okay with a medical specialist or massage therapist that they could "pay" to help the guy. I hope all is going well for you and yours, my Friend. Wishing you a glorious day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
These parents need to get a clue.... their son must have relief, and often!! The parents need to get over themselves and invite the friend back into the life of their son to improve his life and elevate his health in many ways... first two things is that the son will have contact with a good friend and he will also find a healthy release that will give him relaxation, and a fresh flow of endorphins...
Could go on forever. This situation pisses me off.
Baldy
Wow, what a predicament! I think the father should set the mother straight and let this guy's friend return to the home.
Very unpleasant situation! I'm sure the father feels awkward jacking off his own son. But the son certainly needs help. his friend should be allowed to help under these circumstance. Surely the father can discuss the situation with his wife and between them come to some arrangement regarding the friend.
In this kind of circumstance the family needs to let the friend do this. It's common knowledge it's not healthy for males or their plumbing to go long periods without an ejaculation. I wouldn't want my parents bathing me anyhow...let alone, them seeing me shooting a load by accident. You better believe my mother would find a friend or a hot male escort to "take care of me " come hell or high water.
Sounds Like Mum is the problem. The woman needs serious counciling. Whether the friend is gay or not is totally beside the point. He was helping the Son at the son's request. If she cannot deal with that, she is the problem. Funny how all three guys in this situation understand that point.
We all know how the male body works and that a man needs ejaculatory release. If this young man can't do it himself, it's simply human compassion to help keep his body functioning, not to mention any human being deserves an opportunity for orgasm and pleasure. And while it's certainly awkward any way this falls, the needs takes priority over embarrasment.
There are a couple other options that come to mind. Mom could do it. Not a good option, I know. Or a professional sex worker could be hired. The family has a choice to make, but it's the young man's dignity that's at stake. High five to the friend who is willing to step up. He should be thanked and appreciated. Mom needs to back off.
Isn’t it amazing that adults aren’t able to talk about basic bodily functions like an erection with each other. Can’t the father explain a few things to the mother? And the father and son talk to each other? Seems like whatever the son needs right now should be provided. Put aside petty issues.
Having these kinds of struggles should be the last thing the son has to worry about. That’s probably what the father should be telling the mother. The goal is for the son to regain his health and emotional well-being ASAP. So do whatever he needs.
Pat, you’ve done a good job of educating all of us. Hugs and bisous.
I think it's great that the guy who was in the accident has a friend
who was willing to 'give him a hand.' It takes a special kind of
friend to give that kind of personal care. It's no different than
changing a bandage in an area normally covered by clothing!
If the guy with the good hands had been a nurse or other medical
person, I don't think the mother would have batted an eye-- he'd have
been a 'professional' doing his job. Care givers don't all wear
white uniforms.
I think his father does need to grow a pair-- either to stand up to
mom and let the poor guy's best friend back in the house, or to man
up and stop saying that because they have a 'religious home' he can't
help out his own son.--Paul
This kid should not be made to suffer like that. This father either needs to let that friend back in or, as you said, he needs to lube up his own hands. Stroking his son's dick might be awkward but it really wouldn't be any different than stroking his own. Like the friend said, "A dick is a dick." I could never let one of my sons suffer this way. - Dad
It needs to be pointed out to this uneducated mother that ejaculation is a 'body function' just the same as eating, urinating and defalcation. It has nothing to do with religion. It is just the controlling hierarchy of the Christian church that wish to control peoples lives. "If you control someosn's SEX LIFE you control their whole life and that is not on. Would this mother allow a friend to clean up after her son had incontinence I'll
bet she'd encourage it so that she would not have to do it herself.
I totally get that the father isn't comfortable giving a handjob to his son. Dad needs to explain the situation to mom and let the sons friend come help out. They're obviously very good buddies so maybe the friend can help out with the bath as well. After the guy is better he needs to say thanks by treating his buddy to dinner, a movie and the pub. And a return the favor handjob if the buddy wants it.
I've done this. A high school friend's sports injury left both arms in casts. We had done it before, but never was one of us so completely dependent on the other. (In fact, the first time since the accident, he hadn't shot in a week, so it flew everywhere. I actually insisted on continuing until he went into "ghost mode", where you orgasm but nothing comes out, that day. God knows he needed it. And just for the record, even though we were circle jerk buddies, I was not aroused by the situation, at all.) Some days he needed it twice, though we tried to keep multiple cums in one day to the weekend, when I had plenty of time. After the casts came off, he repaid me and then some.
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