I love it when readers send questions.
From the Mail Bag:
"I hope you're feeling well today. Ive texted you before with questions on how to organize a JO group here in my area. While that plan never did pan out (super thanks anyway for your help), I was able to find a JO buddy online. We meet about twice a month to slap it around together. We also like to do guided meditation to help with our anxiety problems. Do you know where we might be able to find online guided meditations for men where mindful masturbation is the main focus? Thank for any and all leads you may have. Thanx also for your time." - Chris
Good to hear from you. And excellent to hear you found a guy to bate with - a buddy only enhances the experience.
The first place to look for guided mindful masturbation is here: BatorBlog. Bruce is considered one oft he most informed on the subject. He's got videos that guide. You might also check out Body Electric. There are also Body Electric Groups on MeetUp - people who've attended and want to keep/get in touch with others.
There are also Masturbation videos available on Amazon that you might find helpful.
The thing to remember is that the purpose of Mindful Masturbation is to take time to explore, find the stimulation which brings different levels of pleasure, to recognize them, to utilize them to the fullest. It's the journey to ejaculation, not the ejaculation itself.
Though, when you do cum, you'll find it was all well worth the time.
9 comments:
Great advice on the blogs...I'll have to check them out.
Always good advice! Have a terrific day!
love the shots!
Why have they anxiety problems? That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger, and to be anxious is quite useless.
I often read here and there on many blogs "let's be proud of being gay" or "do not be ashamed to be gay", and elsewhere at the same time we also read that it is not a disease, that we have not chosen it, that it's natural. Therefore we have no reason to be proud or ashamed, isn't it?
We do not choose our family, our race, our language, our nationality, our genetic and cultural heritage, etc. etc. In short we choose nothing and we are responsible for everything. We are told "you'll have to cope with all the constraints that you'll surely encounter. Be yourself and be proud of yourself!"
We live in a world where we swim in oceans of contradictions. The only reasonable way to react is to notice it and not to take account of it, certainly not to be anxious.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Bruce Grether's website with mindful masturbation videos that might be on interest: http://www.eroticengineering.com/mystery-school
Great news he found a JOBud. That is awesome. I love the idea of them sharing mindful masturbation meditation experiences. Great info for the guys and for us! I wish you a Joyous Bonerific Suntanned Boner weekend! : ) Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
@ MFP - Very well put, mon ami! Anxiety does us no good. As you say, we should note the issue, face it, and move on. Though, some are ill-equipped to do so. But, masturbation is one way to assist in relieving the pent-up fears. LOL. Hugs and bisous!
Thanx for sharing my question about mindful masturbation with all your readers. It was very exciting to see when I logged on the other morning. However, I'd like to reply to a comment someone posted about 'Why do they have anxiety problems?' The writer then goes on about homosexuality and attitudes gay men have about their sexuality. My anxiety has nothing whatsoever to do with that and everything to do with an inherited chemical balance and ineffective, post-trauma coping skills. I take meds to be able to function in society. I'm not mad at the writer of this comment but it does display a typically uninformed attitude people who don't suffer from anxiety tend to have. Adding that we 'swim in an ocean of contradictions' and 'the only reasonable way to react is to notice it and not take account of it,' is patronizing, borderline offensive and, for someone who suffers from anxiety, nearly impossible to do. Again, I'm not mad at anyone, just eager to educate people about anxiety, thereby removing the stigma and embarrassment those of us with anxiety problems deal with on a daily basis. Thank for all you do! - Chris
@ Anonymous
Sorry for this misunderstanding. When I wrote "Why have they anxiety problems?" it was only a question to which I didn't intend to answer in your place. It was because it seemed to me that no one had reacted to this information you gave. The rest was not a commentary on this statement, but general considerations more specifically about gays (of which I am), and by extension about all humans. And nobody is obligated to have the same opinions as me, but I do not change my mind.
Best regards.
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