"Reading today's post I had to write and ask your opinion. My son and I enjoy being naked when my wife is gone. Its not anything sexual or to do with anything sexual we just like being nude. Sometimes we just sit and read or watch a game on tv or play a video game. My wife thinks its terrible that we would be naked together and we need to stop. We don't think we should have to hide our bodies because we're bopth male after all. But she's like what if one of you gets hard. I covered that with him when he was like 5 and had the sex talk with him aroud 12. He knows what a boner is and we don't think we should have to stop because of her crazyness. What do you and the rest of your readers think?"
Father - son nudity? Nothing wrong with it at all. What you're doing is teaching him he has nothing he needs to hide away, nothing he should be ashamed of, nothing to be embarrassed about.
If you taught him about his erections at 5 - because males get boners in the womb, fer cryin' out loud - and taught him about sex around 12, you've got things covered. The majority of men don't.
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In a democracy the majority wins. If they were to vote there would be two votes for and one against the fact that the two males continue.
For once a votation is clear and with no political shenanigans.and does not make us want to pull out our hair, we should not deprive us to ratify it.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
It doesn't really matter to me one way or the other. The wife must think it's sexual. I had a friend and his father and he were always naked, but it did indeed become sexual at once point, to the point where they were sleeping together. Maybe she worries that will happen. But that has got to be rare.
Now my father never ran around naked. But I remember camping once in middle school with a friend and his father. They liked being naked. And it though it was so cool But unbeknownest to my friend his father and I had two sexual encounters. I think it's where my love for older men stems.
I don't really see anything bad about them being naked at home? The father had 'the talk' with the son early. It does not say anywhere that one of both of them are bisexual, so what's the deal? The mother feels uncomfortable but she's not home. *shrugs*
And I love that you posted these men here today! I ESPECIALLY like the salt-and-pepper gentleman offering somebody something. He's in Mormon Boys and Family Dick and I WANT HIM.
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XOXO
Different strokes. Makes a world.
I think the father has done an admirable job, so much better than most. And, as long as mom is out of the house, she needs to relax about it.
My boys and I didn't run around naked all the time but we certainly never tried to hide from each other either. Nothing wrong with what they're doing. And yes I saw my boys with erections. I know they've seen dick hard too. So what? I don't think it scarred them for life. - Dad
I really don't see an issue. If the wife knows, I doubt it sexual. He doesn't say how old the boy is but as long as he is really not being sexual then I think he has taught him good things and healthy things. I do understand the wife's hang ups. In our world you just never know. Her job and his is to protect their son and they are both doing it how they think they should. They need to compromise or he needs to not tell her. Personally I think its great (and a little hot if I'm honest).
No Prob with me. Why not be natural and comfy. Wife needs a chill pill - sounds as though she might be have issues understanding the difference between being naked and being sexual - TOTALLY different states of being. By the way, I have my shower running waiting for you, bro! : ) Wishing you all the very best, my Dear Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
I wish that my father was as open as this guy.
Unfortunately I can't really blame because his father was around to engage him either. So good job. Keep up the good work.
If it's hot, you don't need as much a.c. when you're nude. I've read that a.c. is the biggest contributor to global warming, so you're helping the globe.
You don't have to wash clothes as often, so that's less detergent going into the sewer system.
You don't have to buy as many clothes, so that improves the trade deficit.
I live by myself & I don't care who sees me nude--except maybe the preacher.
I wouldn't want him getting the wrong impression as to why I go nude. It is, after all, the way we were all born.
he did well! he is right
I think it's great that a Father and son can be comfortable together as men, because it teaches the next generation that they have nothing to be ashamed about in the functions or appearance of the male body.
I don't understand the female obsession with "owning" men to the point of wanting them to hide or suppress anything the woman finds distasteful. Perhaps women should be worried, that by controlling male sexual expression so completely, men might start looking elsewhere and actually find the grass is greener on the other side.
What consenting adults do in private is between them. The only issue I have with sexual expression between Fathers and sons, if it goes that far, is that if the lad is not an adult, it must be originated by him as a Father's natural dominant position means the young man is not able to consent to a Father's overtures.
@sixpence: I believe the salt-and-pepper gentleman is brandishing a pair of his jocks that his "son" has been sniffing, in a gesture that suggests "please explain!".
In those situations in real life, there is often anger instead of understanding, or punishment instead of the fantasy sexual encounter that develops in the porn version, unless the "Father" happens to be gay.
as our dad wrote above we've spent time together naked and yeah we've seen each others boners. in fact though he didn't know it at the time we both seen him jerk off too. didn't scar us at all its just normal healthy stuff. - 2Rs
It's no big deal. You've never heard of a locker room?
We're this way at our house too, except my wife doesn't see any negatives about it. We're actively trying to teach our son not to be ashamed of his body in any way.
Well, being around the house naked with any family member is a bit of a strange thing for me. There have been times when my dad and I were naked in clothes changing situations but never to just hang around the house. But my own comfortability level Is not everyone else's So it's not for me to say what is normal for someone else.
I remember however during the stages of my body changing ; I want to say around age 10; I hated taking baths at other people's houses I have no idea other than ironically I didn't want other people's germs on me. And I also got claustrophobic in the water. I remember my dad telling me to take a bath and I pretended to do so. Of course people could notice the body odor still on me. My dad marched me back into the bathroom and we both stripped down and got in the bath. It was one of those moments when a father teaches his son about body odor and good hygiene. It was a moment when a father put his foot down and and made sure that his son does as he is told. But more than that It was a moment when a father not only tells his son to do something but He shows him by example the proper way to do it.
Don't let your son be one of "those guys" in the locker room who pulls on his underwear with a towel still wrapped around his waist. (Hope you're teaching him to go commando...but that's another discussion.) The lesson that a young man need not be ashamed of his cock and balls is a powerful one, and all the more so if he learns it from his father. Also if he and/or you sport hard-ons, don't make a big deal of it. Wherever there are naked men, there will be hard-ons, they're natural and part of being a masculine human being. However, I think the accepted "code" is not to call attention to another guy's boner unless you're willing to do something with it. Kudos to you for being this important part of your son's education.
@ C_Dan - Thank you for giving such treat encouragement to this man. The more support he gets with this issue, the better. Your words about men and boners are valid ones (as are the ones about going commando). The more men take part in the education of their sons, the better.
My Dad and I went camping and skinny dipped together all the time. I saw him with morning wood there all the time. I got hard all the time, and he caught me jacking more times than I remember. He never batted and eyelash. In fact, a couple times, we talked while I was jerking. When I ejaculated, he said, "Well, do you feel better now?" At home, we showered in front of each other without commetime.He said not to sweat the lockerroom, the YMCA (in those days, we swam naked) and I am relaxed and unembarrassed in situations like that, thanks to him.
Your anon friend popping in for a quick comment. My father does not discuss male sexuality and I never saw him naked until quite late in our lives. It was only by accident, as in a dick slip as some call it. He was heavily medicated and in the hospital. Because of this, I was a little shocked that the female nurses allowed his exposure in front of me. Having not had father/son conversations about sex or male bodies made the situation deeply awkward and embarrassing for me. If he wasn't so heavily medicated, I'm sure he would have been quite embarrassed himself. To all the guys that have a more open yet respectful relationship I guess that's great. There's so much a boy learns from example just being around his dad. So it seems to me that a body positive father has the ability to let his son know what is normal, what is healthy etc..... Why cause your son to seek out information elsewhere such as his inexperienced peers?
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